if you really want to live a leisurely life, then why not learn to let yourself release the burden of the mind, learn to forget, forget the gains and losses that are unhindered by the personal principles, the insignificant bump, the old old gap in the past? Learn to let yourself go all the way and go ahead.
the perfection of personality is the foundation and the establishment of wealth is the end.
the ancients said, "those who bear their wrath are better than brave men" and "those who repair their own hearts are better than those who attack the cities". In life, tolerance can reduce the gap between people, so that we can better communicate with each other, more considerate and caring.
"one person can not ride two horses. If you ride this one, you will lose that one. Smart people will put aside the demands of distracting energy." Human life and energy are limited, we should learn to focus on all the information, energy, enthusiasm and focus on your goals.
a person who can see things from other people's concepts and understand other people's mental activities will never have to worry about their future. The greatest bankruptcy of a man is despair, and the greatest asset is hope. Don't wait for the opportunity, but create the opportunity.
the highest state you like is that you may die for her. The highest state of love is that you have to live for the people you love.
if life needs a perfect symbol, nothing is more appropriate than a smile. Smile, it is a sweet song, can sing the joy of life; it is the warm sunshine, can dispel the shadow of the heart; it is the boundless spring wind, can flourish the vitality of the cause.
smile can reduce tension and stress, no matter how angry or impulse to face people, as long as the smile shows, can be straight to the right, smile a magic key, can open the window of the soul, transfer the kindness of the heart, step back, the sky and the sky; step back, deceive the sea; impulsive is demon, As long as we are calm and calm, we will be able to turn hostility into friendship.
many people look for a girlfriend or boyfriend, one of the indicators, not only to the warmth and romance of the other person to his / her partner, but also that he / she is knowledgeable, educated, or higher, and thriving in business; I want to say that you are looking for a partner, not a partner, but not a colleague, life is It's life. This person is right for you. Even if you are a doctor, he or she doesn't know a word, it doesn't matter. It will be harmonious and harmonious. People are more important than diploma.
listen to a song, repeatedly, wondering, what are you thinking? Do you really love her? Why can't we say that love is a business. Spoony people will not have true love, let all this wind, blowing to the ends of the earth. Do not let me see, for you, since it can not be said, it is vague. Perhaps, this is the best, no one is too tired.
a person who can see things from other people's concepts and understand other people's mental activities will never have to worry about their future.
if people want to establish their prestige, they must constantly improve themselves and cultivate themselves and be strict with themselves. If you want others to be what you want, you must first do that yourself. Being strict with yourself enables you to become the most reliable person.
on the road of success, there must be failure; for failure, we should treat and treat correctly, not afraid of losers, we must succeed; if the loser, it is useless, and will fail.
select a few people who think they can be reliable, and form the core of good, stable and effective interpersonal relationship. The first few people can include their friends, family members and those who are closely connected with each other in your career. They form your inner circle because they enable you to develop your strengths and you want each other to succeed.
what we are doing now may be too dull, perhaps trivial. But this is the work, is the life, is the achievement personnel essential foundation. For a dedicated person, nothing is trivial, simple is not easy.
family is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth, and love is a kind of purity. Love is the sun bathing with no conditions and no return. Friendship is a vast and huge dike that can be inhabited at any time; and love is a mystery and can make the song to the ungrateful tears to the natural and unrestrained soul. One life, one's family, friendship, and love; the three one is missing, one is regret, the other three is two, and it is poor; the three are all lacking, and the living is like death.
if you have the sun in your heart, you won't be afraid of the bumps in front of you. If you have the courage in your heart, you won't be afraid of it. No matter how big the wind is and how big it rains ahead, you can break through the sky. Children do not feel sad, the beauty of life is strong and tough.
good intentions are not wrong, but we must distinguish right from wrong. Therefore, before you can find out if something is worth doing, dare to say "no", not to be used by others, and not to be a scapegoat of others.
in fact, the road is not wrong, the wrong is the choice, love is not wrong, the wrong is the fate, so no matter where, the scenery is always limited, after all, there will be a good. Life is not a race, but a trip.
what is a good marriage? To marry well is not to marry a rich man, but to marry a man who can give you a sense of security. Living in a villa and weeping day by day, you enter heaven instead of hell. A woman who really marries well is living in a flat, but her husband is coaxing like a silly bird. He loves you for a while and spoils you for a lifetime. In fact, a good life is really not a lot of money but a carefree mind.
in order to succeed, we should not only eat "bitter and bitter", but also support the cooperation of relevant conditions. Those who eat bitterness, those who eat hard to eat, who eat bitterness as a magic weapon to solve all problems, can only continue to wander in the strange circle of "bitter and bitter".
people often know how to cherish after losing, but it is too late, even if they cry and dry tears, they can not change their possession. How many people sigh this way: they do not know how to cherish when they have them, but when they lose, they are irrevocable.
Children who never make mistakes grow up to be mediocre or make big mistakes sooner or later. Therefore, we should reduce the expectations and demands of children, encourage them to face their own shortcomings and mistakes, encourage them to not be afraid of making mistakes, pay attention to the experience and harvest of the process, and remove the masks of "good children".
success is not only in the future, but from the moment when decisions are made.
the greatest regret of life is that it is wrong to stick to something that should not be insisted, and to give up something that should not be abandoned. Every one has his own ideal, and there is a goal that is expected. Maybe one day I am a teacher and a dog, maybe one day I can realize my ideal, Reach your goal! Life is still going on! Don't forget to treat each day with smile. Don't forget to cherish the rest of the day.
keep the heart of awe all the time. To the time, to the beauty, to the pain. It seems that our life is just a simple career of a white flower tree in spring. Whether it is in full bloom or in silence and decadence, it is so willing and cherished.
what we lack is not an opportunity, but a grasp of opportunity; what we are short of is not wealth, but the ability to create wealth; what we lack is not knowledge but an attitude of learning; what we lack is not ideal, but practical practice.
there is only one way that can not be chosen - that is the way to give up; only one way can not be rejected - that is the way of growth.
a positive person sees an opportunity in every worry, while a negative person sees a certain worry in every opportunity. Do not find an excuse to fail, only to find a reason to succeed.
People who are able to criticize and criticize our shortcomings and mistakes are our rare friends. Good faith criticism is like a pot of wine. When we are intoxicated with the world of friends and colleagues, the factors of criticism seem to be contained in every visual sensory cell.
no one is willing to deal with people who are always hypocritical and sleek, but being honest is also easy to hurt people. Therefore, business people pay attention to big honesty, that is, when appropriate, they should say the right thing to the right person. If frank and forbidding is a kind of injury, please choose witty lies.
as long as you have the ability to do something to do, do not leave any regrets for yourself, the most important thing in life is not the position, but the direction. The road is at your feet, so long as you go, you can reach the distance.
It's more important to do the right thing than to do it.
the reward of life is at the end of the journey, not near the starting point. I don't know how many steps I need to take to achieve my goal. I still may fail if I take the 1000th step. But I will not give up. I will persist until I succeed.
like a person before, you can let it come and go. Now like a person, still can recruit to come, but no longer accepted to go away. Because I know now that I am fine, so you love me and have only one chance.
the heart of the water is calm, the heart of the water is light. You see, the water is as smooth as a mirror. Water, with a calm and light heart, a gentle trickle to go, encounter some obstruct and gently bypass, why so much, and calm and light flow from the smooth; if the road is straight, that is better, I can also rush, a thousand miles, surging waves, I will also spill my natural and unrestrained, my indulgence.
the days remain silent and enslaved, we are tired of running, and we have to look for it.
Don't wait for the opportunity, but create the opportunity.
there is no fate that can be conquered without contempt, suffering and struggle.
the husband has not been born in the micro and become in the light, so the sage is far away, so it can be treated slightly and the people are close to them, so they must be saved and then saved. People are short-sighted, so we must try to save them by waiting for trouble.
the most pathetic thing about human nature is that we always dream of a wonderful rose garden on the horizon instead of appreciating roses that are open to us today.
the ancients said: "less natural, habits like nature." Bad habits are our unlocked hearts; bad habits are the ones that we can't turn around; bad habits are obstacles we can't see. Good habits must be maintained, bad habits should be corrected, and bad habits should never be allowed to affect our future.
life slowly long road twists and turns difficult, road hard and rugged, and time can prove everything, we should be strong to be brave, to our future road add an exclamation mark! Life is bound to be difficult. We should learn from it and overcome our difficulties with our accumulated experience for a long time. In fact, there is a fear of the train, the train, fear of derailment, aircraft, fear of falling, life, fear of ghosts, in fact, we do not have to live too tired, brave to face difficulties, to give themselves a common heart, to encourage themselves, to give themselves more confidence, strength from their own.
a long road can be completed step by step, and a short road will not be able to reach without feet.
self abandonment is the slave of fate, the angel of life, I do not want to use the sweat of others to irrigate my heart, I would like to use other people's cotton padded jacket, to warm their body. I just want to be upright and upright. I only wish to do things openly and openly. I will not forget what I remember, and I will not keep those forgotten.
have a result to forget immediately, so that will not be self - trouble; have a mistake to keep in mind, so that it will not repeat the same mistakes; have the opportunity to seize immediately, so that no opportunity to lose; there are difficulties to find countermeasures, in order to solve it.
if you want to become famous soon, you must go to bed slowly; if you want to be wise, you need to be slow and proud. If you want to slow down aging, you have to learn quickly; if you want to slow down, you have to hurry up.
only the soul that makes his own inferiority complex, the bent body can be straight; only the footsteps that make his cowardly body strong, the bound footsteps open; only the narrow mind opens up, the short-sighted vision is far away; only the foolish mind is smart, the foolish fantasy can be thrown away. Abandon!
life has a lot of ways to choose, choose one, go down, will meet the people and scenery on this road, and the choice of another, is completely different scenery and people. Some people may walk with you. Some people who stay in the same place and walk together may also be separated from you at the next intersection. There is nothing to lament about. This is the necessity of life. Cherish the people who are watching the scenery with you, and at the next separate junctions, wave freely and vigorously.
thanks to the person who has hurt you, because he has tempered your mind; thanks to the person who has deceived you, because he has promoted your wisdom; thanks to the person who has hurt you, because he has tempered your will... Thank you for all the people who grow up because of you, and you will continue to make progress.
life is not a race, but a journey. Games care about endpoints, while travel cares about scenery along the way. We must persist in insisting that we should remain unchanged and change all the time.
we do not have to lament for ordinary, because ordinary is also a kind of beauty! Ordinary is a wasteland, pregnant with the rise of the rise, as long as you Hegang open up; ordinary is soil, as long as you will cultivate; ordinary is a fine stream, pregnant with deep, as long as you will accumulate. Commonplace is a rest after a thrilling fight. It is a meditation after a brilliant pursuit. Commonness is the depth of telling arrogance after ignorance.
last night's preparations for several minutes, today a few hours of trouble.
the only constant change in the world is change. Everything happens when we think of it. We must never wait and delay. No one can return to the path of life. Today, though not the best, it is a place where we can work hard. Time is changing, the key is to grasp the present.
although we can not determine the length of our life, but we can widen its width; although we can not change our looks, we can show a smile; although we can not control others, we can master ourselves; although we can not predict tomorrow, but we can grasp today; although you can not be smooth, but you can do things. Do your best.
the necessity of success: affinity: affinity is human vein; decisive force: decisive decision, refusing to hesitate; execution: execution is the continuation of decision; Creativity: make ordinary ordinary. Foresight: take the initiative and lead the trend. Cohesion: an enterprising team like magnets. Radiation power: conquer the market and consumers with taste and sincerity. Influence: beyond time and space.
if the greeting is just a greeting, what is the difference between the call and the monkey's call? In fact, the correct greeting must clearly show your concern for him in just one sentence.
let's turn the worries before us into thinking and planning ahead of time.
if a hateful setback brings you bitter fruit, a friend will surely make you feel the joy of life. If you are afraid of the rocks in front of you, life will always be a pool of stagnant water. When the waterfall crosses the steep steep wall, it looks extraordinarily magnificent.
more reading to nourishing courage, less anxiety to keep the heart, to keep the anger to raise the liver qi, thin taste to feed the stomach qi, only cautiously to nourishing the spirit, follow the time to nourishing the spirit, must be generous to nourishing the spirit, chest open-minded to nourishing positive gas, arrogant ice snow to raise bone Qi, when forbearance to nourishing harmony, Ying Qiangong to raise spirit, Mo slack in order to raise aspirations.
the time in the fingers sly slip away, in the time of the road between people is strange, but after a long journey, exchange talk, people know, understand, only a long way is not only a few people, I can not be familiar with all people, the solution of all people, some people just rub shoulders with me but I shoulder and In the past, that is the traveller in my life; some people may be willing to stop for me, accompany me to enjoy the scenery along the way, and accompany me through this journey of life.
To live with one's own beliefs can produce self esteem and self-control, and peace of mind. You will measure yourself in the value standard, not the likes and dislikes of others, and the comparison of others. At this time, there is no difference between the right and wrong of the thing and the others.
life only comes out of beauty, without waiting for glory. On the way of life, even if everything is lost, you will have no reason to despair as long as you breathe. Because everything lost may be restored at a new level.
read the book is not white read, only in the weight of the condition of the utilization rate and conversion rate are lower, so, it needs such an insight, let yourself understand, can not and do not need to read such a "silly", to a certain extent, we should - less reading.
the twelve wealth of life: a positive mental attitude; a good body; a harmonious interpersonal relationship; out of fear; the hope of future success; the capacity for faith; the desire to share his own happiness; to love his own work; to be open to all things; to be strict in self-discipline; to understand human ability; economy; Guarantee.
the simple description of society is that it is all human beings, all human beings, and all human beings. But society will definitely separate the levels. There is only one way, that is, competition. You have to work hard to make yourself a strong man of society, and the strong can have everything, not everything that money can buy, otherwise the end is the bottom of the society.
any qualitative change of performance comes from the accumulation of quantitative change.
reading, we can not only master certain professional skills, more importantly, be able to solve all kinds of life problems they face. All one's life is nothing but continuous exploration of what kind of meaning it should have in life.
the fastest and most sure way to conquer fear and build confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you succeed.
the Boulevard to Jane! Classic is simple, truth is simple, and the most useful thing is simpler. Complexity results in waste, while efficiency comes from simplicity. Finding the key part and eliminating redundancy is not so complicated.
a person will tear, is because of pain; a person is because of pain, is because of care; a person care, is because of the feeling; a person has a feeling, only because you are a person! So, you feel, care, pain, and tears, indicating that you are a complete person who can not be complete.
some things you must understand, may make you very tired, and the result is often not as you imagine. Therefore, there is no need for anything to be broken.
walking through life, seeing clouds and smoke, bitter and spicy taste, sweet aftertaste, experience of vicissitudes, and achievement of strict compliance. After sixty years of life, bitter and sour, sweet and sweet, tread on the road of life, you can not be injured in the world, you can not hurt the vitality; all things do not worry, you will be cool in the bottom of your heart; you do not think, you do not greedy, you are not greedy, you can riches and health. On the contrary, if you continue to show your momentum and fight for momentum, eventually you must grow up.
the only way to maintain a positive connection with everyone in the network is to creatively use our schedule. Write down the dates of others who are particularly important to your relationship, such as birthdays or anniversaries. Call them, at least send them a card to let them know that you are thinking of them.
there is no flower that will not be grateful, there will be no waves that will not return, there will be no light without darkness, no good injuries, no despair that will not stop. So, what are you worried about?
their own pain is most clear, their lamentation of their own most aware of their own happiness, the most I feel. Maybe the hell in my own eyes is heaven in other's eyes. Maybe the heaven in my own eyes is the hell in other's eyes. Life is such a funny thing. The key to a person's life is the adjustment of mentality.
it's nothing to fight a bull at a time when you are not afraid; it's nothing to go to a bullfight when you are afraid; it's really great to go to a bull only when you are afraid.
life on the road, everything has to rely on their own understanding, rely on their own will, rely on their own pursuit...... Life is a one-way ticket without return. What we can do is to keep working hard. We can only rely on ourselves.
all kinds of disputes in the world, either for wealth or for doctrines, are nothing more than disputes about interests and ideas. When we are in it, we can't help seeing it. But every one of us will leave the world sooner or later, and there is absolutely no hope of return. In this sense, we might as well look at the world with Robinson's eyes, which will help us to distinguish the essence.
many enterprises are now studying the competency model and observing whether candidates can be competent from the perspective of ability. Of course, high capacity can not be directly linked to high performance, the ability to play in a certain mechanism, environment, work content and responsibility, without these platforms and the environment, and the ability to be high can only be dusty.
be your own master, have your own thoughts, control your words and actions, and cherish your emotions. Because I dominate myself, I can understand myself better. Because I accept myself, I like myself better and show my best side.
if you become strong enough, no one can refuse you; if you can command yourself, difficulties will not stop you. As long as you change yourself first, then you can change your world and change your life.
anyway, life should go on. Sometimes injury and failure are not necessarily bad things, they will make you better, and so are loneliness and loss. Everything will turn out to be a good thing in the end, as long as you can go to the end.
ladder ladder is never used to lay foot, it just put people's feet for a period of time, so that one foot can climb up again. Usually did not run guard thousand kilometers, occupy time to carry out one hundred meters sprint. Without torrent, it is impossible to advance bravely.
do not fear the road, fear short Zhi; not afraid of slow, afraid of standing often; not afraid of poverty, afraid of lazy lazy; not afraid of opponents, and fear that they tremble. Peace gives comfort, but gives death. Labor gives a person a temper, but gives a person a long time.
a person's biggest bankruptcy is despair, and the greatest asset is hope.
there is no inherent confidence, only continuous confidence.
life and death, riches in heaven. I have seen such a doggerel and end it with it: life is just a few decades, but success or failure is all in heaven. It is the non grudge, that health and happiness are the most valuable. Since ancient times, the world is like a fairy. May you not be annoyed and happy every day.
human beings are miraculous because of their dreams. But have you found that your dreams are fading away from you as they grow older, until they disappear? At this time, you can confirm that your dream has been stolen, and there is no courage and ability to recover.
towards tomorrow, which I learned in primary school, and never moved towards yesterday. Yes, yesterday is yesterday, which shows that it has passed. No matter how dirty it is, we can all forget it. Then we can go ahead and walk forward with great strides and undaunted telling people: "I want to go to tomorrow, I will open up my tomorrow."
which industry, which profession, and which profession, a lot of things are innate, only to fully explore their potential, and not always against their own weaknesses, a person can come out, as many enterprises now recruit, they believe that through training and education can let turkeys climb trees, but Is it more convenient to choose a pine tree? Wrong direction, hard work and hard work, it's hard for you to become the kind of person you want to be 90.
tranquility, is the elegance that can't be installed. The mind is filled with bucket of water, a little gap will overflow. Life is a field. What is it? What is the cause and effect? Pain hurts, pain makes you know yourself and sees others clearly. If you stand up and pat on the dirt, how many people will care if you fall? Many things in the world, see clearly, want to open, fade, forget, quiet.
poverty is not terrible, and the horror is the lack of self-reliance; poverty is not terrible, the terrible is the retreat or the desire for mediocrity and poverty, which leads to enduring poverty. The compromise of poverty on the will will lead to the abandonment of behavior in changing poverty and will eventually bring poverty to life.
action is the cure for fear, and hesitation and procrastination will continue to nourish fear.
everyone's growing environment is different and their experience is different, so their values are different. Others do not recognize you, does not mean that you are wrong, only that he and your ideas are different. Bosom friend and bosom friend play together, not a bosom friend to the side.
do not rush to let life give you all the answers, sometimes you have to show patience and so on. Even if you shout to the hollow Valley, you will have to wait for a while before you hear the long echoes. That is to say, life will give you the answer, but it will not tell you everything at once. As long as you wait for a while, the goodness of life always comes to you when you are careless.
the hand is sour, can put things in hand; if the heart is tired, please put down your mind. In the end, do not let your heart tired again. A lighter life will make life better and your body healthier.
"the sky will be reduced to the great people." This is actually telling us to stay away from the trap of comfort and keep ourselves in a "uncomfortable" state.
what is failure? Nothing, just a step closer to success. What is success? It is through all the way to failure that there is only one way to go. That is the road to success.
if life is like a song, why should I have to overlook and stay in love with those past things, why do I have to bear the resentment that has become a final decision on the shoulder, let the mind bear this unnecessary load, and let the spirit suffer this meaningless torture again! Learn to forget!
making mistakes is the best way to learn. It is not necessarily a good thing if we can look at our mistakes from another angle. Because we can learn from our mistakes and drive us forward.
the reason why people live tired, is because they think too much, full of heavy burden of thought, worried, emotional fluctuations, hesitant, undetermined, tired heart will endanger your health, increase your troubles, you will feel breathless, and you will not be able to feel hard. As long as you lay down your thoughts and burden, you will enjoy life in peace and taste life in plain life.
there are no good people and bad people in the world, only those who have done good deeds and those who have done bad deeds. - Jing Chai