1、如果真的想活得悠闲，那么，为何不学着让自己释放心灵的重负，学着忘却，忘记那些无碍于个人原则的得失；无关大局的磕磕碰碰；无伤大雅的前嫌旧隙呢？学会让自己时时都轻装上阵，潇洒前行！
if you really want to live a leisurely life, then why not learn to let yourself release the burden of the mind, learn to forget, forget the gains and losses that are unhindered by the personal principles, the insignificant bump, the old old gap in the past? Learn to let yourself go all the way and go ahead.
2、人格的完善是本，财富的确立是末。
the perfection of personality is the foundation and the establishment of wealth is the end.
3、古人云“隐忍不怒的人，胜于勇者”、“修己冶心的人胜于攻城掠地的将领”。生活中，宽容可以减少人与人之间的隔阂，可以让大家更好地沟通，彼此多一些体贴和关怀。
the ancients said, "those who bear their wrath are better than brave men" and "those who repair their own hearts are better than those who attack the cities". In life, tolerance can reduce the gap between people, so that we can better communicate with each other, more considerate and caring.
4、“一个人不能骑两匹马，骑上这匹，就要丢掉那匹，聪明人会把凡是分散精力的要求置之度外。”人的生命和精力是有限的，我们要学会将聚光镜一样，排除一切琐事的干扰，将所有的资料、精力、热情聚焦并锁定你的目标上。
"one person can not ride two horses. If you ride this one, you will lose that one. Smart people will put aside the demands of distracting energy." Human life and energy are limited, we should learn to focus on all the information, energy, enthusiasm and focus on your goals.
5、一个能从别人的观念来看事情，能了解别人心灵活动的人，永远不必为自己的前途担心。一个人最大的破产是绝望，最大的资产是希望。不要等待机会，而要创造机会。
a person who can see things from other people's concepts and understand other people's mental activities will never have to worry about their future. The greatest bankruptcy of a man is despair, and the greatest asset is hope. Don't wait for the opportunity, but create the opportunity.
6、喜欢的最高境界是你可能为她去死，可爱的最高境界是你得为你爱的人好好活着。
the highest state you like is that you may die for her. The highest state of love is that you have to live for the people you love.
7、如果人生需要一个完美的符号，没有比微笑更合适的了。微笑，它是甜美的歌声，能唱出生活的快乐；它是温暖的阳光，能驱散心头的阴影；它是无边的春风，能蓬勃事业的生机。
if life needs a perfect symbol, nothing is more appropriate than a smile. Smile, it is a sweet song, can sing the joy of life; it is the warm sunshine, can dispel the shadow of the heart; it is the boundless spring wind, can flourish the vitality of the cause.
8、微笑可以减轻紧张的情绪和压力，不管面对多么愤怒或者冲动得人，只要微笑示之，都能坦然以对，微笑一把神奇的钥匙，可以打开别人心灵的窗户，传递心灵的善意，退一步，海阔天空；退一步，瞒天过海；冲动是魔鬼，只要心平气和静下心来，相对而笑，一切都能化干戈为玉帛。
smile can reduce tension and stress, no matter how angry or impulse to face people, as long as the smile shows, can be straight to the right, smile a magic key, can open the window of the soul, transfer the kindness of the heart, step back, the sky and the sky; step back, deceive the sea; impulsive is demon, As long as we are calm and calm, we will be able to turn hostility into friendship.
9、很多人找女朋友或者男朋友，把学历当作指标之一，既希望对方能够给他/她伴侣的温暖与浪漫，又希望他/她知识丰富、学历相当或更高，在事业上能蒸蒸日上；我想说，你找的是伴侣，不是合作伙伴，更不是同事，生活就是生活，这个人适合你，即使你是博士他/她斗大字不识一个，那也无所谓，适合就会和谐融洽，人比文凭更重要
many people look for a girlfriend or boyfriend, one of the indicators, not only to the warmth and romance of the other person to his / her partner, but also that he / she is knowledgeable, educated, or higher, and thriving in business; I want to say that you are looking for a partner, not a partner, but not a colleague, life is It's life. This person is right for you. Even if you are a doctor, he or she doesn't know a word, it doesn't matter. It will be harmonious and harmonious. People are more important than diploma.
10、听着一首歌，反反复复，琢磨不透，自己在想什么？难道真的爱她么？可为什么说不出口呢，爱情就是买卖，看透就好。痴情的人不会有真爱、让这一切随风，吹到天涯海角。不要再让我见到，对你，既然说不出，那就模模糊糊。或许，这样最好，谁都不会太累。
listen to a song, repeatedly, wondering, what are you thinking? Do you really love her? Why can't we say that love is a business. Spoony people will not have true love, let all this wind, blowing to the ends of the earth. Do not let me see, for you, since it can not be said, it is vague. Perhaps, this is the best, no one is too tired.
11、一个能从别人的观念来看事情，能了解别人心灵活动的人，永远不必为自己的前途担心。
a person who can see things from other people's concepts and understand other people's mental activities will never have to worry about their future.
12、人要想树立自己的威信，就要不断进行自我完善和修养、严于律己。你要求别人怎么样，首先必须自己先做到那样，身教的效果总比言传更为快捷。严于律己能使自己成为一个最可信赖的人。
if people want to establish their prestige, they must constantly improve themselves and cultivate themselves and be strict with themselves. If you want others to be what you want, you must first do that yourself. Being strict with yourself enables you to become the most reliable person.
13、成功的道路上，肯定会有失败；对于失败，我们要正确地看待和对待，不怕失败者，则必成功；怕失败者，则一无是处，会更失败。
on the road of success, there must be failure; for failure, we should treat and treat correctly, not afraid of losers, we must succeed; if the loser, it is useless, and will fail.
14、选几个自认为能靠得住的人组成良好、稳固、有力的人际关系的核心。这首选的几个人可以包括自己的朋友、家庭成员和那些在你职业生涯中彼此联系紧密的人。他们构成你的影响力内圈，因为他们能让你发挥所长，而且彼此都希望对方成功。
select a few people who think they can be reliable, and form the core of good, stable and effective interpersonal relationship. The first few people can include their friends, family members and those who are closely connected with each other in your career. They form your inner circle because they enable you to develop your strengths and you want each other to succeed.
15、我们现在做的工作，也许过于平淡，也许鸡毛蒜皮。但这就是工作，是生活，是成就人事的不可缺少的基础。对于敬业者来说，凡事无小事，简单不等于容易。
what we are doing now may be too dull, perhaps trivial. But this is the work, is the life, is the achievement personnel essential foundation. For a dedicated person, nothing is trivial, simple is not easy.
16、亲情是一种深度，友情是一种广度，而爱情是一种纯度。亲情是没有条件、不求回报的阳光沐浴，友情是浩荡巨大、可以随时安然栖息的堤岸；而爱情则是神秘无边、可以使歌至到忘情泪至潇洒的心灵照射。人生一世，亲情、友情、爱情；三者缺一，已为遗憾，三者缺二，实为可怜；三者皆缺，活而如亡。
family is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth, and love is a kind of purity. Love is the sun bathing with no conditions and no return. Friendship is a vast and huge dike that can be inhabited at any time; and love is a mystery and can make the song to the ungrateful tears to the natural and unrestrained soul. One life, one's family, friendship, and love; the three one is missing, one is regret, the other three is two, and it is poor; the three are all lacking, and the living is like death.
17、如果你心中有阳光，就不会恐惧前方的坎坷；如果你心中有勇气，就不会畏缩不前；无论前方风多大，雨多大，闯过去就是一片海阔天空！孩子别忧伤，生命的美丽就是坚强的走过坎坷！
if you have the sun in your heart, you won't be afraid of the bumps in front of you. If you have the courage in your heart, you won't be afraid of it. No matter how big the wind is and how big it rains ahead, you can break through the sky. Children do not feel sad, the beauty of life is strong and tough.
18、好心没有错，但也要分清是非，不分原则的善良，是“愚善”，就像东郭先生一样。因此，在没有搞清一件事是否值得做之前，要敢于说“不”，不要被他人利用，更不要一不小心成为他人的替罪羊。
good intentions are not wrong, but we must distinguish right from wrong. Therefore, before you can find out if something is worth doing, dare to say "no", not to be used by others, and not to be a scapegoat of others.
19、其实路并没有错，错的是选择，爱并没有错，错的是缘分，所以无论何地，一路的风景总是有限的，终究会有美好的。生命不是一场赛跑，而是一次旅行。
in fact, the road is not wrong, the wrong is the choice, love is not wrong, the wrong is the fate, so no matter where, the scenery is always limited, after all, there will be a good. Life is not a race, but a trip.
20、什么是嫁得好？嫁得好并不是嫁富豪，而是嫁给一个能给你安全感的男人。住在别墅里天天流泪的，你进的不是天堂而是地狱。真正嫁得好的女人，是住在单元房里却被老公哄的像只傻鸟，爱你一时，宠你一世，骗你一辈子！其实日子过得好，真的不是有多少钱，而是无忧无虑无烦恼。
what is a good marriage? To marry well is not to marry a rich man, but to marry a man who can give you a sense of security. Living in a villa and weeping day by day, you enter heaven instead of hell. A woman who really marries well is living in a flat, but her husband is coaxing like a silly bird. He loves you for a while and spoils you for a lifetime. In fact, a good life is really not a lot of money but a carefree mind.
21、想取得成功，不仅要吃“苦中苦”，也要相关条件的配合支持，那些光知道吃苦的人，那些吃了不值得吃的苦的人，那些把吃苦当成解决一切问题法宝的人，恐怕只能继续在“苦中苦”的怪圈里徘徊。
in order to succeed, we should not only eat "bitter and bitter", but also support the cooperation of relevant conditions. Those who eat bitterness, those who eat hard to eat, who eat bitterness as a magic weapon to solve all problems, can only continue to wander in the strange circle of "bitter and bitter".
22、人往往是失去之后才懂得珍惜，可是为时已晚，即使是哭干眼泪也换不回曾经的拥有。多少人都是这样的感叹：拥有时不知道珍惜，失去时已无可挽回。
people often know how to cherish after losing, but it is too late, even if they cry and dry tears, they can not change their possession. How many people sigh this way: they do not know how to cherish when they have them, but when they lose, they are irrevocable.
23、从不犯错的孩子长大后要么成为庸才，要么早晚要犯大错。因此，我们要适度降低对孩子的期望与要求，鼓励他们真实地面对自己的缺点和错误，鼓励他们在尝试中不怕犯错误，注重过程的体验和收获，摘掉“好孩子”的面具。
Children who never make mistakes grow up to be mediocre or make big mistakes sooner or later. Therefore, we should reduce the expectations and demands of children, encourage them to face their own shortcomings and mistakes, encourage them to not be afraid of making mistakes, pay attention to the experience and harvest of the process, and remove the masks of "good children".
24、成功不是将来才有的，而是从决定去做的那一刻起，持续累积而成。
success is not only in the future, but from the moment when decisions are made.
25、人生的最大遗憾莫过于错误地坚持了不该坚持的东西，轻易地放弃了不该放弃的东西，每一个人都有自己的理想，都有那个期望达到的目标，或许有这么一天我恩男狗狗成为一名教师，或许有那么一天我能实现自己的理想，达到自己的目标！生活还在继续！不要忘记微笑的对待每一天，不要忘记珍惜余下的每一天！
the greatest regret of life is that it is wrong to stick to something that should not be insisted, and to give up something that should not be abandoned. Every one has his own ideal, and there is a goal that is expected. Maybe one day I am a teacher and a dog, maybe one day I can realize my ideal, Reach your goal! Life is still going on! Don't forget to treat each day with smile. Don't forget to cherish the rest of the day.
26、要始终保持敬畏之心。对时光，对美，对痛楚。仿佛我们的活，也只是一棵春天中洁白花树的简单生涯。不管是竭力盛放，还是静默颓败，都如此甘愿和珍重。
keep the heart of awe all the time. To the time, to the beauty, to the pain. It seems that our life is just a simple career of a white flower tree in spring. Whether it is in full bloom or in silence and decadence, it is so willing and cherished.
27、我们缺少的不是机遇，而是对机遇的把握；我们缺欠的不是财富，而是创造财富的本领；我们缺乏的不是知识，而是学而不厌的态度；我们缺少的不是理想，而是身体力行的实践。
what we lack is not an opportunity, but a grasp of opportunity; what we are short of is not wealth, but the ability to create wealth; what we lack is not knowledge but an attitude of learning; what we lack is not ideal, but practical practice.
28、只有一条路不能选择——那就是放弃的路；只有一条路不能拒绝——那就是成长的路。
there is only one way that can not be chosen - that is the way to give up; only one way can not be rejected - that is the way of growth.
29、积极的人在每一次忧患中都看到一个机会，而消极的人则在每个机会都看到某种忧患。莫找借口失败，只找理由成功。
a positive person sees an opportunity in every worry, while a negative person sees a certain worry in every opportunity. Do not find an excuse to fail, only to find a reason to succeed.
30、能够刚正批评、指责我们缺点和错误的人是我们难得的诤友，善意的批评就像是一壶美酒，当我们开怀陶醉在这种朋友同事间畅饮的世界里，批评的因子仿佛蕴藏在每个直观的感觉细胞中。
People who are able to criticize and criticize our shortcomings and mistakes are our rare friends. Good faith criticism is like a pot of wine. When we are intoxicated with the world of friends and colleagues, the factors of criticism seem to be contained in every visual sensory cell.
31、没有人愿意和总是虚伪、圆滑的人打交道，但是一味的诚实，却也容易伤害人。所以，生意人讲究的是大诚实，即在适当的时候，对适当人，说适当的话。如果坦率无忌是一种伤害，那么，请选择机智的“谎言”。
no one is willing to deal with people who are always hypocritical and sleek, but being honest is also easy to hurt people. Therefore, business people pay attention to big honesty, that is, when appropriate, they should say the right thing to the right person. If frank and forbidding is a kind of injury, please choose witty lies.
32、只要你有能力去做的事就一定要去做，不要给自己留下任何遗憾，人生最重要的不是所站的位置，而是所朝的方向。路就在你脚下，只要走，就能到达远方。
as long as you have the ability to do something to do, do not leave any regrets for yourself, the most important thing in life is not the position, but the direction. The road is at your feet, so long as you go, you can reach the distance.
33、做对的事情比把事情做对重要。
It's more important to do the right thing than to do it.
34、生命的奖赏远在旅途终点，而非起点附近。我不知道要走多少步才能达到目标，踏上第一千步的时候，仍然可能遭到失败。但我不会因此放弃，我会坚持不懈，直至成功！
the reward of life is at the end of the journey, not near the starting point. I don't know how many steps I need to take to achieve my goal. I still may fail if I take the 1000th step. But I will not give up. I will persist until I succeed.
35、以前喜欢一个人，可以任由招之即来，挥之即去。现在喜欢一个人，仍可以招之即来，但不再接受挥之即去。因为我现在知道，我很好，所以你爱我，也只有一次机会。
like a person before, you can let it come and go. Now like a person, still can recruit to come, but no longer accepted to go away. Because I know now that I am fine, so you love me and have only one chance.
36、水的心是平静的，水的心是轻灵的，你看，水，一平如镜，云月其中，怡然自乐。水，怀着平静而轻灵的心，缓和的一淌而去，遇一些阻隔且轻轻的绕过，何必那么多计较，心平而轻流自畅；如一路顺直，那更好了，我也可以尽情的奔流，一望千里，波涛澎湃，我也会挥洒我的潇洒，我的纵情。
the heart of the water is calm, the heart of the water is light. You see, the water is as smooth as a mirror. Water, with a calm and light heart, a gentle trickle to go, encounter some obstruct and gently bypass, why so much, and calm and light flow from the smooth; if the road is straight, that is better, I can also rush, a thousand miles, surging waves, I will also spill my natural and unrestrained, my indulgence.
37、日子不动声色奴役我们疲于奔命，而我们还要为之稽首敛眉。
the days remain silent and enslaved, we are tired of running, and we have to look for it.
38、不要等待机会，而要创造机会。
Don't wait for the opportunity, but create the opportunity.
39、没有一种不通过蔑视、忍受和奋斗就可以征服的命运。
there is no fate that can be conquered without contempt, suffering and struggle.
40、夫事未有不生于微而成于着，圣人之虑远，故能谨其微而治之，众人之识近，故必待其着而后救之；治其微则用力寡而功多，就其着则竭力而不能及也。人见识短浅，所以必等弊端闹大才来设法挽救。
the husband has not been born in the micro and become in the light, so the sage is far away, so it can be treated slightly and the people are close to them, so they must be saved and then saved. People are short-sighted, so we must try to save them by waiting for trouble.
41、人性最可怜的就是：我们总是梦想着天边的一座奇妙的玫瑰园，而不去欣赏今天就开在我们窗口的玫瑰。
the most pathetic thing about human nature is that we always dream of a wonderful rose garden on the horizon instead of appreciating roses that are open to us today.
42、古人说：“少成若天性，习惯如自然。”坏习惯是我们打不开的心锁；坏习惯是我们转不过的弯；坏习惯是我们看不见的障碍……好习惯要保持，坏习惯要改正，永远别让坏习惯左右我们的未来。
the ancients said: "less natural, habits like nature." Bad habits are our unlocked hearts; bad habits are the ones that we can't turn around; bad habits are obstacles we can't see. Good habits must be maintained, bad habits should be corrected, and bad habits should never be allowed to affect our future.
43、人生慢慢长路波折不段困难重重，道路坚险而岐岖，而时间可以证明一切，我们要坚强要勇敢，给自己以后的路加上个惊叹号！人生难免有困难我们要从中学习经验，用自己长时间积累的经验压倒眼前的困难。其实什么的有害怕的时候，火车，害怕出轨，飞机，害怕坠毁，生活，害怕见鬼，其实我们活的不必太累，勇敢面对困难，给自己一棵平常的心，多鼓励自己，多给自己点信心，力量来源于自己。
life slowly long road twists and turns difficult, road hard and rugged, and time can prove everything, we should be strong to be brave, to our future road add an exclamation mark! Life is bound to be difficult. We should learn from it and overcome our difficulties with our accumulated experience for a long time. In fact, there is a fear of the train, the train, fear of derailment, aircraft, fear of falling, life, fear of ghosts, in fact, we do not have to live too tired, brave to face difficulties, to give themselves a common heart, to encourage themselves, to give themselves more confidence, strength from their own.
44、再长的路，一步步也能走完，再短的路，不迈开双脚也无法到达。
a long road can be completed step by step, and a short road will not be able to reach without feet.
45、自暴自弃便是命运的奴隶，自强不息是生命的天使；我不想用别人的汗水浇灌自己的心灵，我愿意用别人的棉袄，来温暖自己的躯体。我只想堂堂正正的做人，我只愿光明磊落做事，该记得的我不会遗忘，该遗忘的我不会存放。
self abandonment is the slave of fate, the angel of life, I do not want to use the sweat of others to irrigate my heart, I would like to use other people's cotton padded jacket, to warm their body. I just want to be upright and upright. I only wish to do things openly and openly. I will not forget what I remember, and I will not keep those forgotten.
46、有了成绩要马上忘掉，这样才不会自寻烦恼；有了错误要时刻记住，这样才不会重蹈覆辙；有了机遇要马上抓住，这样才不会失去机会；有了困难要寻找对策，这样才能迎刃而解。
have a result to forget immediately, so that will not be self - trouble; have a mistake to keep in mind, so that it will not repeat the same mistakes; have the opportunity to seize immediately, so that no opportunity to lose; there are difficulties to find countermeasures, in order to solve it.
47、如果你想快点成名，那么就得慢点睡觉；如果你想快点长智，那么就得慢点骄傲。如果你想慢点老化，那么你就得快点学习；如果你想慢点淘汰，那么就得快点迈步。
if you want to become famous soon, you must go to bed slowly; if you want to be wise, you need to be slow and proud. If you want to slow down aging, you have to learn quickly; if you want to slow down, you have to hurry up.
48、只有使自己自卑的心灵自信起来，弯曲的身躯才能挺直；只有使自己懦弱的体魄健壮起来，束缚的脚步才能迈开；只有使自己狭隘的心胸开阔起来，短视的眼光才能放远；只有使自己愚昧的头脑聪明起来，愚昧的幻想才能抛弃！
only the soul that makes his own inferiority complex, the bent body can be straight; only the footsteps that make his cowardly body strong, the bound footsteps open; only the narrow mind opens up, the short-sighted vision is far away; only the foolish mind is smart, the foolish fantasy can be thrown away. Abandon!
49、人生有很多路要选择，选中一条，走下去，便会碰见这条路上的人和风景；而选择另一条，则是完全不同的风景与人。()有的人可能与你一起走，有的人留在原地，一起走的人，也可能在下个路口与你分开。没什么可哀叹的，这是人生的必然，珍惜身边与你一起看风景的人，并在下一个分开路口，洒脱的用力的挥挥手。
life has a lot of ways to choose, choose one, go down, will meet the people and scenery on this road, and the choice of another, is completely different scenery and people. Some people may walk with you. Some people who stay in the same place and walk together may also be separated from you at the next intersection. There is nothing to lament about. This is the necessity of life. Cherish the people who are watching the scenery with you, and at the next separate junctions, wave freely and vigorously.
50、感谢伤害你的人，因为他磨炼了你的心志；感谢欺骗你的人，因为他增进了你的智慧；感谢中伤你的人，因为他砥砺了你的意志……感谢一切使你成长的人，因为有他，你才会不断进步。
thanks to the person who has hurt you, because he has tempered your mind; thanks to the person who has deceived you, because he has promoted your wisdom; thanks to the person who has hurt you, because he has tempered your will... Thank you for all the people who grow up because of you, and you will continue to make progress.
51、生命不是一场赛跑，而是一次旅行。比赛在乎终点，而旅行在乎沿途风景。该坚持时就坚持，以不变应万变，该改变时就改变，以万变应不变。
life is not a race, but a journey. Games care about endpoints, while travel cares about scenery along the way. We must persist in insisting that we should remain unchanged and change all the time.
52、我们不必为平凡悲叹，因为平凡，也是一种美丽！平凡是荒原，孕育着崛起，只要你鹤岗开拓；平凡是泥土，只要你肯耕耘；平凡是细流，孕育着深邃，只要你肯积累。平凡是一场惊险搏击之后的小憩，是一次辉煌追求之后的沉思。平凡是告诉了无知的炫耀的狂妄之后的深沉。
we do not have to lament for ordinary, because ordinary is also a kind of beauty! Ordinary is a wasteland, pregnant with the rise of the rise, as long as you Hegang open up; ordinary is soil, as long as you will cultivate; ordinary is a fine stream, pregnant with deep, as long as you will accumulate. Commonplace is a rest after a thrilling fight. It is a meditation after a brilliant pursuit. Commonness is the depth of telling arrogance after ignorance.
53、昨晚多几分钟的准备，今天少几小时的麻烦。
last night's preparations for several minutes, today a few hours of trouble.
54、这个世界唯一不变的就是变化，任何事情，想到了就要去做，永远不要去等待和拖延。人生的路谁也无法重走，今天，虽不是最好，但正是可以努力的地方。时间是变化的，关键在于把握当下。
the only constant change in the world is change. Everything happens when we think of it. We must never wait and delay. No one can return to the path of life. Today, though not the best, it is a place where we can work hard. Time is changing, the key is to grasp the present.
55、虽然我们不能决定自己生命的长度，但可以拓宽它的宽度；虽然我们不能改变容貌，但可以展现笑容；虽然我们不能控制他人，但可以掌握自己；虽然我们不能预知明天，但可以把握今天；虽然你不能样样顺利，但你可以事事尽力。
although we can not determine the length of our life, but we can widen its width; although we can not change our looks, we can show a smile; although we can not control others, we can master ourselves; although we can not predict tomorrow, but we can grasp today; although you can not be smooth, but you can do things. Do your best.
56、成功必备：亲和力：亲和即人脉；决断力：果断决策，拒绝犹豫；执行力：执行是决策的接续；创造力：把普通变成平凡。前瞻力：洞悉先机，引领潮流，领先半步。凝聚力：像磁石凝聚进取的团队。辐射力：用品位和诚信征服市场和消费者。影响力：超越时间和空间。
the necessity of success: affinity: affinity is human vein; decisive force: decisive decision, refusing to hesitate; execution: execution is the continuation of decision; Creativity: make ordinary ordinary. Foresight: take the initiative and lead the trend. Cohesion: an enterprising team like magnets. Radiation power: conquer the market and consumers with taste and sincerity. Influence: beyond time and space.
57、如果寒暄只是打个招呼就了事的话，那与猴子的呼叫声有什么不同呢？事实上，正确的寒暄必须在短短一句话中明显地表露出你对他的关怀。
if the greeting is just a greeting, what is the difference between the call and the monkey's call? In fact, the correct greeting must clearly show your concern for him in just one sentence.
58、让我们将事前的忧虑，换为事前的思考和计划吧！
let's turn the worries before us into thinking and planning ahead of time.
59、如果可恨的挫折使你尝到苦果，朋友，奋起必将让你尝到人生的欢乐。如果惧怕前面跌宕的山岩，生命就永远只能是死水一潭。瀑布跨过险峻陡壁时，才显得格外雄伟壮观。
if a hateful setback brings you bitter fruit, a friend will surely make you feel the joy of life. If you are afraid of the rocks in front of you, life will always be a pool of stagnant water. When the waterfall crosses the steep steep wall, it looks extraordinarily magnificent.
60、多读书以养胆气，少忧虑以养心气，戒发怒以养肝气，薄滋味以养胃气，惟谨慎以养神气，顺时令以养元气，须慷慨以养浩气，胸豁达以养正气，傲冰雪以养骨气，当忍让以养和气，应谦恭以养锐气，莫懈怠以养志气。
more reading to nourishing courage, less anxiety to keep the heart, to keep the anger to raise the liver qi, thin taste to feed the stomach qi, only cautiously to nourishing the spirit, follow the time to nourishing the spirit, must be generous to nourishing the spirit, chest open-minded to nourishing positive gas, arrogant ice snow to raise bone Qi, when forbearance to nourishing harmony, Ying Qiangong to raise spirit, Mo slack in order to raise aspirations.
61、时间在指缝中偷偷溜走，在时间的道路上人与人之间是陌生的，只是经过了长途跋涉，交流攀谈，人们熟悉了，了解了，只是长长的人生之路不是仅有那么几个人，我不可能熟悉所有人，了解所有人，有的人只是与我擦肩而过，那是我生命中的过客；有的人也许却愿意为我驻足，陪我一起去欣赏沿途的风景，陪我走过人生的这段旅程。
the time in the fingers sly slip away, in the time of the road between people is strange, but after a long journey, exchange talk, people know, understand, only a long way is not only a few people, I can not be familiar with all people, the solution of all people, some people just rub shoulders with me but I shoulder and In the past, that is the traveller in my life; some people may be willing to stop for me, accompany me to enjoy the scenery along the way, and accompany me through this journey of life.
62、凡是秉持自己信念而活，就能产生自尊自重与自制力，并且内心平和，你会以内在价值标准，而不是旁人的好恶或别人的比较的结果，来衡量自己，这时候，对事情的对错与别人是否发现无关。
To live with one's own beliefs can produce self esteem and self-control, and peace of mind. You will measure yourself in the value standard, not the likes and dislikes of others, and the comparison of others. At this time, there is no difference between the right and wrong of the thing and the others.
63、人生只有走出来的美丽，没有等出来的辉煌。在人生的道路上，即使一切都失去了，只要一息尚存，你就没有丝毫理由绝望。因为失去的一切，又可能在新的层次上复得。
life only comes out of beauty, without waiting for glory. On the way of life, even if everything is lost, you will have no reason to despair as long as you breathe. Because everything lost may be restored at a new level.
64、读过的书是不会白读的，只是在重量不重质的情况下利用率和转化率都低了些，所以，需要这么一个顿悟，让自己明白，不能也不必要再这么的“傻”读下去，到一定程度之后我们就是应该——少一点阅读。
read the book is not white read, only in the weight of the condition of the utilization rate and conversion rate are lower, so, it needs such an insight, let yourself understand, can not and do not need to read such a "silly", to a certain extent, we should - less reading.
65、人生的十二种财富：积极的精神态度；良好的体格；人际关系的和谐；脱离恐惧；未来成功的希望；信念的容量；与人分享自己的幸福的愿望；热爱自己的工作；对所有的事物有开放的内心；严于自律；理解人的能力；经济保障。
the twelve wealth of life: a positive mental attitude; a good body; a harmonious interpersonal relationship; out of fear; the hope of future success; the capacity for faith; the desire to share his own happiness; to love his own work; to be open to all things; to be strict in self-discipline; to understand human ability; economy; Guarantee.
66、对社会的简单形容就是：全是人、全是人、全是人——但社会肯定会分出层次，只有一个办法，那就是竞争。你必须努力，必须使自己成为社会的强者，强者才能拥有一切，而不是金钱可以买到的一切，否则结局就是被亚在社会的底层。
the simple description of society is that it is all human beings, all human beings, and all human beings. But society will definitely separate the levels. There is only one way, that is, competition. You have to work hard to make yourself a strong man of society, and the strong can have everything, not everything that money can buy, otherwise the end is the bottom of the society.
67、任何业绩的质变都来自于量变的积累。
any qualitative change of performance comes from the accumulation of quantitative change.
68、读书，我们不仅能够掌握一定的专业技能，更重要的是，能够解决自己面临的各种各样的人生问题。人终其一生，无非就是在不断探知自己的人生到底应当有什么样的意义而已。
reading, we can not only master certain professional skills, more importantly, be able to solve all kinds of life problems they face. All one's life is nothing but continuous exploration of what kind of meaning it should have in life.
69、征服畏惧、建立自信的最快最确实的方法，就是去做你害怕的事，直到你获得成功的经验。
the fastest and most sure way to conquer fear and build confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you succeed.
70、大道至简！经典是简单的，真理是简单的，最有用的东西也是较简单的东西。复杂会造成浪费，而效能则来源于单纯。找到关键的部分，去除多余，成功并不那么复杂。
the Boulevard to Jane! Classic is simple, truth is simple, and the most useful thing is simpler. Complexity results in waste, while efficiency comes from simplicity. Finding the key part and eliminating redundancy is not so complicated.
71、一个人会落泪，是因为痛；一个人之所以痛，是因为在乎；一个人之所以在乎，是因为有感觉；一个人之所以有感觉，仅因为你是一个人！所以，你有感觉，在乎，痛过，落泪了，说明你是完整不能再完整的一个人。
a person will tear, is because of pain; a person is because of pain, is because of care; a person care, is because of the feeling; a person has a feeling, only because you are a person! So, you feel, care, pain, and tears, indicating that you are a complete person who can not be complete.
72、有些事你非要弄个明白，也许会使自己很疲惫，而结果往往不像你想象的那样。因此也就没有必要任何事情都打破沙锅问到底。
some things you must understand, may make you very tired, and the result is often not as you imagine. Therefore, there is no need for anything to be broken.
73、走过的是人生，看过的是云烟，尝过的是苦辣，回味的是甘甜，经历的是沧桑，成就的是遵严。走过人生的六十年，苦辣酸甜感慨万千，踏上人生路，与世无争、你就伤不到元气；万事不忧、你就心底清凉；烦事不思、你就神合气畅；遇事不贪、你才能富贵安康。反之，你不断的出风头，争势头、最终你一定要栽跟头。
walking through life, seeing clouds and smoke, bitter and spicy taste, sweet aftertaste, experience of vicissitudes, and achievement of strict compliance. After sixty years of life, bitter and sour, sweet and sweet, tread on the road of life, you can not be injured in the world, you can not hurt the vitality; all things do not worry, you will be cool in the bottom of your heart; you do not think, you do not greedy, you are not greedy, you can riches and health. On the contrary, if you continue to show your momentum and fight for momentum, eventually you must grow up.
74、要与关系网络中的每个人保持积极联系，唯一的方式就是创造性地运用自己的日程表。记下那些对自己的关系特别重要的别人的日子，比如生日或周年庆祝等。打电话给他们，至少给他们寄张贺卡，让他们知道你心中想着他们。
the only way to maintain a positive connection with everyone in the network is to creatively use our schedule. Write down the dates of others who are particularly important to your relationship, such as birthdays or anniversaries. Call them, at least send them a card to let them know that you are thinking of them.
75、没有不会谢的花，没有不会退的浪，没有不会暗的光，没有不会好的伤，没有不会停下来的绝望。那么，你在烦恼什么？
there is no flower that will not be grateful, there will be no waves that will not return, there will be no light without darkness, no good injuries, no despair that will not stop. So, what are you worried about?
76、自己的伤痛自己最清楚，自己的哀叹自己最明白，自己的快乐自己最感受。也许自己眼中的地狱，却是别人眼中的天堂；也许自己眼中的天堂，却是别人眼中的地狱。生命就是这般的滑稽。一个人有一个人的活法，关键在于心态的调整。
their own pain is most clear, their lamentation of their own most aware of their own happiness, the most I feel. Maybe the hell in my own eyes is heaven in other's eyes. Maybe the heaven in my own eyes is the hell in other's eyes. Life is such a funny thing. The key to a person's life is the adjustment of mentality.
77、在你不害怕的时间去斗牛，这不算什么；在你害怕时不去斗牛，也没有什么了不起；只有在你害怕时还去斗牛才是真正了不起。
it's nothing to fight a bull at a time when you are not afraid; it's nothing to go to a bullfight when you are afraid; it's really great to go to a bull only when you are afraid.
78、人生路上，一切都得靠自己——靠自己的理解，靠自己的意志，靠自己的追求……人生是一张单程的车票，一去无返，我们能做的只有不断努力，我们能依靠的只有自己。
life on the road, everything has to rely on their own understanding, rely on their own will, rely on their own pursuit...... Life is a one-way ticket without return. What we can do is to keep working hard. We can only rely on ourselves.
79、世上种种纷争，或是为了财富，或是为了教义，不外乎利益之争和观念之争。当我们身在其中时，我们不免看重。但是，我们每一个人都迟早要离开这个世界，并且绝对没有返回的希望。在这个意义上，我们不妨也用鲁滨逊的眼光来看一看世界，这会帮助我们分清本末。
all kinds of disputes in the world, either for wealth or for doctrines, are nothing more than disputes about interests and ideas. When we are in it, we can't help seeing it. But every one of us will leave the world sooner or later, and there is absolutely no hope of return. In this sense, we might as well look at the world with Robinson's eyes, which will help us to distinguish the essence.
80、现在很多企业都在研究能力模型，从能力的角度来观察应聘者能否胜任岗位。当然，高能力不能和高绩效直接挂钩，能力的发挥也是在一定的机制、环境、工作内容与职责之内的，没有这些平台和环境，再高的能力也只能被尘封。
many enterprises are now studying the competency model and observing whether candidates can be competent from the perspective of ability. Of course, high capacity can not be directly linked to high performance, the ability to play in a certain mechanism, environment, work content and responsibility, without these platforms and the environment, and the ability to be high can only be dusty.
81、做自己的主人，拥有自己的思惟，支配自己的言行，珍惜自己的情感……因为主宰了自己，所以更能深刻地了解自己。由于接受了自己，所以更喜欢自己，进而将自己最好的一面呈现出来。
be your own master, have your own thoughts, control your words and actions, and cherish your emotions. Because I dominate myself, I can understand myself better. Because I accept myself, I like myself better and show my best side.
82、如果你变得足够强大，别人就无法拒绝你；如果你可以命令自己，困难就无法阻碍你……只要首先改变了你自己，你才能去改变你的世界，改变你的生活。
if you become strong enough, no one can refuse you; if you can command yourself, difficulties will not stop you. As long as you change yourself first, then you can change your world and change your life.
83、不管怎样，生活还是要继续向前走去。有的时候伤害和失败不见得是一件坏事，它会让你变得更好，孤单和失落亦是如此。每件事到最后一定会变成一件好事，只要你能够走到最后。
anyway, life should go on. Sometimes injury and failure are not necessarily bad things, they will make you better, and so are loneliness and loss. Everything will turn out to be a good thing in the end, as long as you can go to the end.
84、梯子的梯阶从来不是用来搁脚的，它只是让人们的脚放上一段时间，以便让别一只脚能够再往上登。平时没有跑发卫千米，占时就难以进行一百米的冲刺。没有激流就称不上勇进，没有山峰则谈不上攀登。
ladder ladder is never used to lay foot, it just put people's feet for a period of time, so that one foot can climb up again. Usually did not run guard thousand kilometers, occupy time to carry out one hundred meters sprint. Without torrent, it is impossible to advance bravely.
85、不怕路远，就怕志短；不怕缓慢，就怕常站；不怕贫穷，就怕惰懒；不怕对手悍，就怕自己颤。安乐给人予舒适，却又给人予早逝；劳作给人予磨砺，却能给人予长久。
do not fear the road, fear short Zhi; not afraid of slow, afraid of standing often; not afraid of poverty, afraid of lazy lazy; not afraid of opponents, and fear that they tremble. Peace gives comfort, but gives death. Labor gives a person a temper, but gives a person a long time.
86、一个人最大的破产是绝望，最大的资产是希望。
a person's biggest bankruptcy is despair, and the greatest asset is hope.
87、没有天生的信心，只有不断培养的信心。
there is no inherent confidence, only continuous confidence.
88、生死有命，富贵在天。曾经看到过这样一首打油诗，就以它作结尾吧：人生不过几十年，成败荣辱都在天。是非恩怨莫在意，健康快乐最值钱。自古人间苦无边，看的高远境如仙。愿你不为凡事恼，轻松快乐每一天。
life and death, riches in heaven. I have seen such a doggerel and end it with it: life is just a few decades, but success or failure is all in heaven. It is the non grudge, that health and happiness are the most valuable. Since ancient times, the world is like a fairy. May you not be annoyed and happy every day.
89、人类因梦想而神奇，但你有没有发现你的梦想随着年龄的增长而离你渐行渐远，直到最后的消失。这个时候，你才确认自己的梦想已经被偷走了，而且没有了重新找回的勇气和能力。
human beings are miraculous because of their dreams. But have you found that your dreams are fading away from you as they grow older, until they disappear? At this time, you can confirm that your dream has been stolen, and there is no courage and ability to recover.
90、走向明天，这是我在小学时就学到的，而从没有走向昨天之说。是的，昨天即为昨天，那就说明它已过去，不管它有多么的卑污，我们都可以做到忘却，然后是昂首挺胸，大步向前走，毫不畏惧的告诉人们：“我要走向明天，我要开拓我的明天”！
towards tomorrow, which I learned in primary school, and never moved towards yesterday. Yes, yesterday is yesterday, which shows that it has passed. No matter how dirty it is, we can all forget it. Then we can go ahead and walk forward with great strides and undaunted telling people: "I want to go to tomorrow, I will open up my tomorrow."
91、自己适合哪些行业，哪些职业，有很多东西是先天决定的，只有充分地发掘自己的潜力，而不是总与自己的弱点对抗，一个人才能出人头地，就像现在很多企业招聘的时候，他们相信通过培训和教育可以让火鸡学会爬树，但是还是觉得选个松树方便一些。方向不对，再努力、再辛苦，你也很难成为你想成为90的那种人。
which industry, which profession, and which profession, a lot of things are innate, only to fully explore their potential, and not always against their own weaknesses, a person can come out, as many enterprises now recruit, they believe that through training and education can let turkeys climb trees, but Is it more convenient to choose a pine tree? Wrong direction, hard work and hard work, it's hard for you to become the kind of person you want to be 90.
92、宁静，是装不出来的优雅。心事是装满桶的水，有一点缝隙都会外溢。人生是一方田，种啥得啥，因果循环，谁也逃不离。痛就痛了，痛，让你认识自己，也看清了别人。败就败了，站起来拍拍灰尘，多少人在乎你摔过跤？人间多少事，看清了，想开了，淡了，忘了，就静了。
tranquility, is the elegance that can't be installed. The mind is filled with bucket of water, a little gap will overflow. Life is a field. What is it? What is the cause and effect? Pain hurts, pain makes you know yourself and sees others clearly. If you stand up and pat on the dirt, how many people will care if you fall? Many things in the world, see clearly, want to open, fade, forget, quiet.
93、贫穷并不可怕，可怕的是缺少自强自立的精神；贫穷不可怕，可怕的是遇难而退或甘愿平庸、贫穷而导致持久贫穷。意志上对贫穷的妥协，会导致行为上对改变贫穷的放弃，最终会让贫穷伴随一生。
poverty is not terrible, and the horror is the lack of self-reliance; poverty is not terrible, the terrible is the retreat or the desire for mediocrity and poverty, which leads to enduring poverty. The compromise of poverty on the will will lead to the abandonment of behavior in changing poverty and will eventually bring poverty to life.
94、行动是治愈恐惧的良药，而犹豫、拖延将不断滋养恐惧。
action is the cure for fear, and hesitation and procrastination will continue to nourish fear.
95、每个人的成长环境不同、经历不同，所以价值观也不同。别人不认可你，不代表你是错的，只说明他和你的想法不一样。知音和知音一起玩，不是知音的到一边去。
everyone's growing environment is different and their experience is different, so their values are different. Others do not recognize you, does not mean that you are wrong, only that he and your ideas are different. Bosom friend and bosom friend play together, not a bosom friend to the side.
96、不要急着让生活给予你所有的答案，有时候，你要拿出耐心等等。即使你向空谷喊话，也要等一会儿，才会听见绵长的回音。也就是说，生活总会给你答案的，但不会马上把一切都告诉你。只要你肯等一等，生活的美好，总在你不经意的时候，盛装莅临。
do not rush to let life give you all the answers, sometimes you have to show patience and so on. Even if you shout to the hollow Valley, you will have to wait for a while before you hear the long echoes. That is to say, life will give you the answer, but it will not tell you everything at once. As long as you wait for a while, the goodness of life always comes to you when you are careless.
97、手酸了，可将手里的东西放下；心累了，请把心里的事放下。说到底，再累也不要让自己心累。轻装上阵，人生会更美好，身体会更健康。
the hand is sour, can put things in hand; if the heart is tired, please put down your mind. In the end, do not let your heart tired again. A lighter life will make life better and your body healthier.
98、“天将降大任于斯人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿其体肤……”这其实就是告诉我们要远离舒适的圈套，要不断让自己处于“不舒适”的状态，才可以有大的作为。
"the sky will be reduced to the great people." This is actually telling us to stay away from the trap of comfort and keep ourselves in a "uncomfortable" state.
99、失败是什么？没有什么，只是更走近成功一步；成功是什么？就是走过了所有通向失败的路，只剩下一条路，那就是成功的路。
what is failure? Nothing, just a step closer to success. What is success? It is through all the way to failure that there is only one way to go. That is the road to success.
100、人生如歌，何必去过份的计较与留恋那些过往的东西，何必把那些已成定局的怨恨背在肩上，让心灵去承受这种不必要的负载，让精神再去遭受这种无谓的折磨！学会忘却吧！
if life is like a song, why should I have to overlook and stay in love with those past things, why do I have to bear the resentment that has become a final decision on the shoulder, let the mind bear this unnecessary load, and let the spirit suffer this meaningless torture again! Learn to forget!
101、犯错是最好的学习，所谓“吃一堑，长一智”就是同样的道理。如果我们能从另一个角度去看待自己所犯的错误，未必不是一件好事。因为我们能从错误中吸取教训，驱使我们进步。
making mistakes is the best way to learn. It is not necessarily a good thing if we can look at our mistakes from another angle. Because we can learn from our mistakes and drive us forward.
102、人之所以活得累，就是因为想的太多，整天背负着沉重的思想包袱，忧心忡忡、情绪波动、踌躇不前、举棋不定，心累就会危及你的健康，增加你的烦恼，你定会感觉气喘吁吁，力不从心。只要你放下思想包袱，遇事不专牛角尖，你就能在平静中享受生活，在平淡中品味生活。
the reason why people live tired, is because they think too much, full of heavy burden of thought, worried, emotional fluctuations, hesitant, undetermined, tired heart will endanger your health, increase your troubles, you will feel breathless, and you will not be able to feel hard. As long as you lay down your thoughts and burden, you will enjoy life in peace and taste life in plain life.
103、这个世界上没有好人和坏人，只有做了好事的人，和做了坏事的人。——柴静
there are no good people and bad people in the world, only those who have done good deeds and those who have done bad deeds. - Jing Chai
