1、对你不喜欢的追求者的示好和关心要坚定的说不或拒绝。即使他说：这不关你的事。
say yes or no to those who you don't like. Even if he said, it's none of your business.
2、没有丑女人，只有懒女人。不愿意用时间来装扮自己的女人，请不要对其他的美丽女人心生嫉妒不满。
there is no ugly woman, only a lazy woman. Women who do not want to dress up with their time, please don't be jealous of other beautiful women.
3、无论多豪华的婚礼都不代表幸福婚姻，两个人终生相处和睦与否和筵开几席、多少首饰全无关联。——《小紫荆》
no matter how luxurious the wedding is, it does not represent happy marriage. Whether the two people get along with each other all their lives or not, and how many pieces of jewelry they have are not related. "Little Bauhinia"
4、无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。——《星之碎片》
no matter what, a person's depravity is always unworthy of forgiveness. The more no one loves, the more he loves himself. "The debris of the star"
5、出门前，记得照镜子，检查一下着装是否协调。如果时间太紧，建议睡觉前就选好第二天要穿的衣服。
before going out, remember to look in the mirror to see if the dress is in harmony. If time is too tight, it is recommended to choose clothes for second days before going to bed.
6、结婚与恋爱毫无关系，人们老以为恋爱成熟后便自然而然的结婚，却不知结婚只是一种生活方式，人人可以结婚，简单得很。爱情……完全是另外一回事。——《我的前半生》
marriage and love do not have a relationship, people always think that love mature after the marriage, but I do not know that marriage is only a way of life, everyone can get married, simple. Love... It's completely different. "My first half of my life"
7、两个人的适配是一种内心感觉，而不是一种视觉，千万不要因满足视觉而忽视感觉。——《花常好月常圆人长久》
the adaptation of two people is a kind of inner feeling, not a vision. Do not neglect your feelings by satisfying your vision. "The flower is often a good month and a long circle."
8、认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以，认真努力的工作。
take your work seriously. Work may not be better than love to make your heart beat, but at least you can guarantee that you have a meal, a house, and an uncertain love that can't give you these, so work hard.
9、我的归宿就是健康与才干，一个人终究可以信赖的，不过是他自己，能够为他扬眉吐气的也是他自己，我要什么归宿？我已找回我自己，我就是我的归宿。——《胭脂》
my home is health and talent, a person can eventually trust, but he himself, can be his own, and his own, what I want to return to? I have found myself, I am my home. "Rouge"
10、要相信自己，善待自己，让自己的生活精彩纷呈。不要误认为是要让某个人后悔，而是为了让自己的人生更精彩。
believe in yourself, treat yourself well and make your life brilliant. Do not mistaken for someone to regret, but to make your life more exciting.
11、不要24小时都想念同一个人。可以分一点给家人和朋友。
do not miss the same person for 24 hours. It can be given to family and friends at a point.
12、购买物件可以讨价还价，但如果对方不小心多找了你钱，要退回去。不要因贪小失去了做人的意义。
the purchase of items can be haggled, but if the other party is not careful to find your money, you have to go back. Do not lose the meaning of being a man because of greed.
13、口腔不要有异味。随身携带口气清新剂和补妆的物件。不要真的以为素面朝天是一种美。香口胶吃过后要用纸包起来丢弃垃圾桶。明白随地吐痰是不文明行为，厉行禁止。
Do not have any odors in the mouth. Carry an object with a breath freshener and a make-up. Don't really think that a plain face is a beauty. After eating the fragrant gum, wrap it up with paper and throw away the trash can. It is uncivilized to understand spitting everywhere.
14、当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，你应该笑着对他说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。
When a man says to you: break up. Please don't cry or cry, you should smile and say to him, "it's been a long time for you to say that." Then turn around and walk away.
15、我也想清楚了，婚姻根本就是那么一回事，再恋爱得轰动，三五年之后，也就烟消云散，下班后大家扭开电视一齐看长篇连续剧，人生是这样的。——《独身女人》
I also want to know that marriage is the same thing, love to stir up again, after 35 years, it will disappear, after work, everyone turn to watch long series of TV series, life is like this. "Single woman"
16、找专人做色彩搭配建议。不要整天灰头灰脸，让自己灿烂点，别浪费青春和娇美身材。
find special people to do color collocation suggestions. Don't make your face grey and bright. Don't waste your youthful and charming figure.
17、万一不小心喝醉了酒，不要打电话给任何人，包括死党和他。
in case of intoxicated wine, do not call anyone, including the sworn followers and him.
18、如果喜欢一个人，在允许的情况下，告诉对方。也许得不到答案，但至少你努力过，将来不必后悔（后悔的是对方，呵呵）。
If you like a person, tell the other person if you want to. Maybe you can't get the answer, but at least you worked hard, and you don't have to regret it in the future.
19、能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。——《开到荼蘼》
the grievances that can be said are not grievances; those who can take away are not lovers. "Go into full swing"
20、任何场合，保持应有的涵养。学会说谢谢、辛苦您、对不起。做错了事情要懂得道歉和改过。
on any occasion, maintain the proper conservation. Learn to say thank you, hard you, I'm sorry. If you do something wrong, you should know how to apologize and change.
21、永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得太紧会勒死他的。
never be endless around the man you like, although you like him to pay his heart to the death of the lungs, and still have to learn to give him space, otherwise, you should be too careful to be too tight will be strangled him.
22、做个睿智的女子。学会从容面对生活。积极面对生活，生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。
to be a wise woman. Learn to face life leisurely. Facing life positively, life will be as you wish, as tomorrow morning, the sun will still rise.
23、爱得不够，才借口多多。——《紫薇愿》
love is not enough, only a lot of excuses. "Crape myrtle wish"
24、已去之事不可留，已逝之情不可恋，能留能恋，就没有今天。——《花常好月常圆人长久》
the things that have already been gone must not be left. "The flower is often a good month and a long circle."
25、不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。当然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。
do not torture yourself for anything. For example, no eating, crying, self closing, depression, these are the things that fools do. Of course, sometimes it is necessary to be silly. Life is not always smart.
26、晚上早点回家，自己没有车，超过十点要打的士，或者让人来接。
go home early in the evening, do not own a car, more than ten points to taxi, or let people pick up.
27、“你大概误会大学文凭是世界之匙，开启顺风顺水之门，这并不正确。读书目的是进修学问，拓阔胸襟。人生所有烦恼会不多不少永远追随，只不过学识涵养可以使一个人更加理智冷静地分析处理这些难题而已。”——《花常好月常圆人长久》
"you probably misunderstand your college diploma as the key to the world. It's not right to open the door to the wind and water. The purpose of reading is to learn to learn, to broaden your mind. All the troubles in life will not be many and many will follow forever, but knowledge and self-restraint can make one understand and deal with these problems more rationally and calmly. "The flower is often a good month and a long circle."
28、无论做什么，记得为自己而做，那就毫无怨言。——《流金岁月》
no matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself. "The golden years"
29、之前你放弃的人或者放弃你的人，深夜打电话给你，挂掉之后关机。如果他守在窗口，记得拉紧窗帘。不是你狠心，而是任何经历伤痛之后的分手都会有裂痕，修补得再好也无法还原。不如就让它过去。
before you give up the person or give up your person, call you late at night, then shut down after hanging up. If he stays in the window, remember to tighten the curtains. It's not your cruelties, but the breakup after any experience of pain. There will be cracks. Let's let it go.
30、最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。——《我的前半生》
the best revenge is not hatred, but the coolness of the heart, why bother to hate an irrelevant person. "My first half of my life"
31、真正有气质的淑女，从不炫耀她所拥有的一切，她不告诉人她读过什么书，去过什么地方，有多亦舒的生活照少件衣服，买过什么珠宝，因为她没有自卑感。——《圆舞》
A truly temperamental lady never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes and jewels have been bought in Yi Shu's life, because she has no sense of inferiority. "Round dance"
32、对于你不想交往的人送来的礼物，原封不动寄回去。这是原则问题。
for the person you don't want to associate with, send a gift. This is a matter of principle.
33、从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想你？爱不爱你？他要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和不在乎你。
from now on, be smart and don't ask him if he wants you. Do love love you? He will tell you or love you, but from your mouth, he will be proud and not care about you.
34、如果可以，和相爱的人牵手漫步。在找不到之前，学会自己欣赏风景。
if you can, and love the people to walk in hand. Learn to appreciate the scenery by yourself before you can find it.
35、如果一个男人对你说他喜欢你，相信他。如果他说不再爱你，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自己，一个不爱你的人离开，是幸运。
if a man tells you that he likes you, trust him. If he says no more love you, believe him. At any time, tell yourself that a person who does not love you is lucky to leave.
36、一个人去看电影。买爆米花和可乐，笑翻天。或者，泪流满面。如果你喜欢体育，去看足球，哭死也没人管你，但是很轻松和畅快。
a person goes to see a movie. Buy popcorn and coke and laugh. Or, tears all over the face. If you like sports and watch football, nobody cares about you, but it's easy and free.
37、生命像流水，这些不快的事总要过去，如果注定一辈子要这么过，再不开心也没有用。——《女人三十》
life is like running water. These unpleasant things are always going to be gone. If you are destined to spend so much time in your life, it will be useless to be unhappy again. "Woman thirty"
38、有自己的人生观和价值观。出现问题可以忍让并寻求解决，但是触及原则，要保持自己原则。丧失原则会让你失去生活的目的。
have their own outlook on life and values. Problems can be forbearance and seek solutions, but stick to principles, we must keep our principles. The loss of principles will let you lose your life.
39、有固定的消遣场所，比如固定的咖啡馆、书店。让那个地方的服务生认识你，这样，你会在孤单时有个温暖的去处。
there are fixed places of entertainment, such as regular cafes and bookstores. Let the waiter know you, so you will have a warm place when you are alone.
40、最少拥有五个以上可供不同颜色、款式衣服搭配的包，五双以上的鞋子。
at least five or more bags for different colors and styles, five pairs of shoes.
41、如果没有人陪，学着一个人听音乐看书写文字。这是个好习惯。
if no one to accompany, learn to listen to music, reading and writing. It's a good habit.
42、穷是一种心态，你若一辈子坚持自己是穷人，拥有大量金钱也救不了你。——《邻室的音乐》
poverty is a state of mind. If you insist on being poor all your life, you can not save a lot of money. "Music in the neighbouring room"
43、凡事想别人感激，那是必然要失望的。——《故园》
if you want to be grateful, you must be disappointed. "The old garden"
44、不管是和谁约会见面，约定的时间之前一定要到达。
whoever meets with someone must arrive before the appointed time.
45、生命从来不是公平的，得到多少，便要靠那个多少做到最好，努力的生活下去。——《我们不是天使》
life is never fair, and how much we get depends on how much we do best and work hard. "We are not angels"
46、任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说，说好话。
in any case, not to say others are right behind. If you have to say, say well.
47、不管和谁有了矛盾和别扭，解决的时间不要超过24小时。否则麻烦会更多。在可以接受的范围内，先道歉。让自己做做坏人不是件真的坏事。
no matter who has contradictions and disagreements with them, the time should not exceed 24 hours. Otherwise, there will be more trouble. In the acceptable range, apologize first. It's not a bad thing to make yourself a bad person.
48、如此情深，却难以启齿。原来你若真爱一个人，内心酸涩，反而会说不出话来，甜言蜜语，多数说给不相干的人听。——《她的二三事》
so deep, but difficult to inspire. It turns out that if you really love a person, your heart will be sour, but you will not be able to speak, sweet words, and most of you will listen to the irrelevant people. "Her two or three affairs"
49、能够哭就好，哭是开始痊愈的象征。——《绝对是个梦》
crying is good, crying is the symbol of recovery. - "absolutely a dream"
50、能不和人争吵尽量避免。一个发怒的人是很恐怖的，会因控制不了情绪变成疯子。
you can avoid arguing with people as much as possible. A person who is angry is very horrible. He can become a madman because he can not control his emotions.
51、人为感情烦恼永远是不值得原谅的，感情是奢侈品，有些人一辈子也没有恋爱过。()恋爱与瓶花一样，不能保持永久生命。——《城市故事》
people's feelings of worry are never worth forgiving. Affection is a luxury. Some people have never been in love for a lifetime. (love), like bottle flowers, can not maintain a permanent life. "City story"
52、对于不想交往的人，不要应邀去吃饭喝咖啡，哪怕只是一块钱。没有后续发展和希望的交往，会浪费人家的钱和感情，这叫贪图享乐。贪慕虚荣的女子会让人瞧不起。如果实在碍于朋友介绍的情面挪不开，记得AA制。
do not want to associate with people, do not be invited to eat coffee, even if it is only a piece of money. No subsequent development and hope of communication will waste people's money and feelings, which is called pleasure seeking. A vain woman will be looked down on. If it really prevents the introduction of friends from being able to move away, remember the AA system.
53、要生活得漂亮，需要付出极大忍耐，一不抱怨，二不解释，绝对是个人才。——《变形记》
to live beautifully requires great patience. Without complaining or explaining two, it is definitely a talented person. "The note of deformation"
54、宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞就随手抓一个男人，这对你和他都不公平，而且太缺乏责任感。
rather than lack. Don't catch a man easily because of loneliness. It's unfair to you and him, and it's too lacking in responsibility.
55、如果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。
if you decide to leave a person, the action should be faster, and the knife is chopped up. If you decide to fall in love with a person, the time will be a little longer and see if it is suitable for you.
56、如果爱一个人，千万不要与他同居或是结婚。维持一个辽阔的距离，偶遇，可以爱慕的目光致敬，轻俏温柔，不着边际地问："好吗？"一年一次已经足够。——《绝对是个梦》
if you love a person, do not live with him or get married. To maintain a wide distance, meet, admire, admire, gently, and gently ask: "OK? "Once a year is enough. - "absolutely a dream"
57、任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。
at any time, do not be sad for a man who is ungrateful. Women need to understand, hurt, and ultimately hurt their own hearts. If that man is merciless, you can't hurt his heart, so pick up your sadness and live well.
58、若要生活愉快非得把自己先踩成一块地毯不可，否则总有人来替天行道，挫你的锐气，与其待别人动手，不如自己先打嘴巴，总之将本身毁谤得一钱不值，别人的气也就平了，也不妒忌了。——《我的前半生》
if you want to live a happy life, you must step into a carpet. Otherwise, someone always comes to heaven, frustrates your sharpness. It is better to beat yourself than to do it. "My first half of my life"
59、如果一个男人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。
if a man starts to neglect you, please leave him. Do not know how to cherish your man, do not give up, and do not have to continue to pay your tender feelings and love.
60、公共场所，给人行方便，特别是老人家。你也会老去，所以尊重老人就是尊重你以后的岁月。
public places are convenient for people to travel, especially for the elderly. You will also grow old, so respecting the elderly is respecting your future years.
61、相信一见钟情的爱情，相信总有一个人会在岁月的拐角处静静的等你。只是你要擦亮眼睛，细心寻找。
believe in love at first sight, I believe there will always be a person waiting for you in the corner of the years. You just have to shine your eyes and look for it carefully.
62、做一个女人要做得像一副画，不要做一件衣裳，被男人试完了又试，却没人买，试残了旧了，五折抛售还有困难。——《喜宝》
to do a woman to do like a picture, do not do a dress, the man tried and tried, but no one to buy, the test was disabled old, half off selling and difficulties. "The joy treasure"
63、对你不情愿做的事情要大声说不。比如酒席上，轮到你喝酒，而你不善饮酒，可以以茶代酒，而非含恨饮醉。
say no to what you are reluctant to do. For example, it's your turn to drink while you are not good at drinking. You can substitute tea for wine instead of hate.
64、平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。
equal and fair treatment of you and his love, foot many ships will eventually turn off.
65、爱那个爱你的人。如果只是你爱他，或者只是他爱你。趁早分开。女子不需要他人来假装疼爱，你也不需要假装疼爱某人。
love the person who loves you. If only you love him, or just love you. Break up early. Women do not need others to pretend to love, nor do you need to pretend to love someone.
