【第一句】管好自己的嘴,讲话不要图一时痛快、信口开河,“良言一句三冬暖,伤人一语六月寒”,说话要用脑子,敏事慎言,话多无益,不扬人恶,自然就能化敌为友。
In the first sentence, keep a good mouth and speak not for a moment. "A good word is three winter and a word is cold in June."
【第二句】没有爱的生活就象一片荒漠,赠人玫瑰,手有余香,要“学会爱别人其实就是爱自己”,让爱如同午后阳光温暖每个人的心房。
Second sentence without love is like a desert, a gift of roses, a hand with fragrance, to "learn to love others is to love yourself", so that love, like the sun in the afternoon, warm everyone's heart.
【第三句】多去理解尊重别人,常怀宽容感激之心,宽容是一种美德是一种智慧,海纳百川是多么广阔,感激你的朋友,是他们给了你帮助;感激你的敌人,是他们让你变的坚强。
Third sentence to understand the respect of others, often to be grateful heart, tolerance is a virtue is a kind of wisdom, how vast the sea is, gratitude to your friends, they give you help; gratitude to your enemies, they make you strong.
【第四句】这个世界,有两件事我们不能不做:一是赶路,二是停下来看看自己是否拥有一份好心态,好心态是一生的好伴侣,让人愉悦健康。
(fourth) the world, there are two things we can not do without doing: one is to catch the road, the two is to stop to see if you have a good state of mind, a good state of mind is a good companion for life, and pleasant and healthy.
【第五句】人情,人情,人之常情,要乐善好施,长于交往,“平时不烧香,急时抱佛脚”是行不通的,所以,“人的情绪要储存”,就象银行存款,存的越多,时间越长,红利就越大。
[Fifth] human feelings, human feelings, human nature, to be good and good, longer than communication, "usually do not burn incense, rush hour" is not feasible, so, "people's mood to store", like bank deposits, the more the longer, the longer the longer, the bigger the bonus.
【第六句】遇事不要急躁。不要急于下结论,尤其生气时不要做决断,要学会换位思考,大事化小、小事化了,把复杂的事情尽量简单处理,千万不要把简单的事情复杂化。
[sixth] don't be impatient. Don't be in a hurry to come to a conclusion, especially when you are angry, do not make a decision, learn to change the position and think, be small and small, and deal with the complicated things as simple as possible, and do not complicate the simple things.
【第七句】学会知足,人生最大的烦恼是从最没有意义的比较开始,这世界总有不如你的人,也总有比你强的人,当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候,我发现有人却没有了脚。
The seventh sentence is to learn to be contented. The greatest trouble in life is to begin with the most meaningless comparison. There are people in the world that are not as good as you, and there are people better than you. When I weep and I don't have shoes, I find that someone has no feet.
【第八句】如果敌人让你生气,那说明你还没有胜他的把握,根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁?如果有一条疯狗咬了你一口,难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗?不要太在乎别人的咒骂。
[eighth] if the enemy makes you angry, it means that you have not yet grasped his grasp, and do not have to go back to see who is cursing you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him? Don't care too much about the curse of others.
【第九句】别把工作当负担,与其生气埋怨,不如积极快乐的去面对,当你把工作当作生活和艺术,你就会享受到工作的乐趣。
Ninth sentence do not work as a burden, rather than grumble with anger, not as positive and happy to face, when you regard work as life and art, you will enjoy the fun of the work.
【第十句】人活着一天,就是有福气,就应该珍惜,人生短短几十年,不要给自己留下更多的遗憾,日出东海落西山,愁也一天,喜也一天;遇事不钻牛角尖,人也舒坦,心也舒坦。
(tenth) a man alive a day, is a blessing, should be cherished, life for just a few decades, do not leave more regrets for yourself, sunrise in the East China Sea west mountain, sorrow is also a day, happy also a day; things are not sharp, people are also comfortable, and the heart is also comfortable.