when the most desperate time comes, you still have the chance to choose, you can choose to be impetuous, or you can choose to change the status quo. We can choose to encourage each other to try to get out of the predicament, or we can choose to complain about destroying others' hopes together.
when you see your classmates or other acquaintances doing something, you will be upset. Just like a long-distance race, at the very beginning, everyone was crazy to run out and you were slow. Even if you didn't want to take the place, you would feel awkward. But if you are always influenced by the external environment or the meaning of others, you will be exhausted. If you want what you want, you need to set your mind at ease and do something good about yourself. You play cards every day, as long as you can become a master, you may not be able to settle down in this society. What you do is not much related. The key is what to do well.
now the situation is a bit like a snake molting, or the Phoenix Nirvana, itself is a bottleneck, each crossing a bottleneck is an extremely painful experience, I do not know if you have seen the appearance of the snake molting, I can only use four words to describe "extreme pain." The time for crossing the bottleneck is long and short. It is said that the Jade Emperor crossed a bottleneck (they call it "robbery") for 120 thousand years. I only encourage you to continue to persist, believing that "Heaven rewards diligence", you persist, and others can not persist, this is your capital.
to do what others do not do, so that you can stand on the heel, after the "three years" you should do the level of things should be different from the beginning of the time. If only "passion", no "results", this person is called "small white rabbit", the small white rabbit is very cute, but no use, team leaders can not have a pile of small white rabbits. You feel that you are better than others. You have to admit it. People who like you admit it is useless, or you like them.
what can you do about unfair phenomena? Anger, anger, or even self - abandonment is just punishing yourself and letting yourself live for a few years. The injustice doesn't change. Society is not fair. Why should you punish yourself?
getting hepatitis B is not terrible. The terrible thing is that it becomes an obstacle in your mind. How fast can you run away from this baggage? Yes, you are more unfortunate than the average person, perhaps more than the average person to bear a little more hard, but hepatitis B patients and carriers have more than 1 hundreds of millions of people, can not see more than 100 million unemployed, the sky is still far from falling down, the situation is far from you worry about so bad, "enterprise physical examination will be brushed down" is that others scare you or you scare yourself Oneself?
no matter when, do not lose confidence in life, do not let others destroy your confidence, those who have lost the confidence of life, more miserable than the people who have hepatitis B.
you want to simplify the workplace, and you are too fragile for the workplace. This is originally an environment where wolves are more flesh and less, and the survival of the fittest. What I write is how to live and live better in such an environment. (Li Zhi) you have to know that the boss will take your credit, like the wolf knows that the lion will grab his food. Do you know that the lion will be "very insidious and depressed" and "basically lose confidence"? Because the lion will be robbed, so the wolf never acts alone, the wild animal is always hungry, and never can be comfortable, even if you eat a piece of meat soon will be laughed off, this is the workplace life, when do you see them lost confidence? Knowing that your boss will succeed, you will always have a way. As for your frustration, you have to practice it.
when you are confused, the things on hand are good things, do not hesitate, do not feel that you may miss anything, when you hesitated, the things on hand did not do well, and at last nothing in this life. A bird in the hand is worth three birds in the forest. It is much more valuable to do a good thing than to do three things well. In fact, the most "good" thing is "the best". No matter how good the company is, there are also unhappy employees.
if we can make achievements, the sales revenue and the future will be better than that of the technology, and it will also be good for the discipline of personality.
what you want, think clearly, choose, cherish, just like your marriage.
please believe that any choice will not be better or worse than the other one, though everyone will eventually doubt that he did not get the best.
no matter which age, regardless of which company, you should focus on exploring or developing their "use of value", we can use the value of the three grades: the first class, endure others can not bear. Second grades, do what others can't do. Third grades, think others can not think of.
life and work still have to be different, from your words to see the ups and downs of your work completely affect your mood, this is not healthy. You first need to enjoy your life, rather than force yourself for what. Many people say that I do this for this purpose, for that... But first of all, for yourself, there is a word on the plane, "please put yourself in the oxygen mask before you try to help someone wear an oxygen mask" (even if this is your loved one) for other people, first of your own life.
how to get happiness and get wealth is a rather complicated question. There is no simple answer. Most young people have no money and no money, but have a strong desire, so not happy, still wandering in the bottom of life, and what I want to do is to help to get out of the valley, not the bottom of the valley to back you out.
I think every road can go very well, what is not important, what is important is how to do it.