1、你宽容一点，其实给自己留下来一片海阔天空。
if you are tolerant, you will leave yourself with a vast ocean.
2、怀着乐观和积极的心态，把握好与人交往的分寸，让自己成为一个使他人快乐的人，让自己快乐的心成为阳光般的能源，去辐射他人，温暖他人，让家人朋友乃至于更广阔的社会，从自己身上获得一点欣慰的理由。
with an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the position of communication with people, make oneself a person to make others happy, let their happy heart become sunshine energy, to radiate others, warm others, let family and friends as a broader society, get a little gratifying reason from yourself.
3、你想要做一个别人愿意和你交流也可以和你交流，最关键是的你要有一个敞亮的心怀。
you want to be a person willing to communicate with you, you can also communicate with you, the most important thing is that you have a bright heart.
4、如何谋其政，首先是做事的原则，要讲究道义，其次是做事的方式，要少言多行；慎言，就是说话要小心，不要说自己做不到的事。
how to seek political affairs, first of all, is the principle of doing things, the following is the moral, the second is the way of doing things, less words and more lines; caution, is to speak carefully, not to say what you can not do.
5、成长是内心在历练中逐渐强大，所谓人生的归位是把外在的东西变成内心的力量？
growth is gradually strong in the inner experience, and the so-called "return" of life is to turn external things into inner strength.
6、只有建立自己内心的价值系统才能把压力变成生命的张力。
only by setting up the inner value system can we change pressure into tension of life.
7、理想之道就是给我们一点储备心灵快乐的资源。
the ideal way is to give us a little bit of resources to store our soul and happiness.
8、成长是内心在历练中逐渐强大，所谓人生的归位是把外在的东西变成内心的力量。
growth is gradually strong in the heart of experience, the so-called return of life is to turn external things into inner strength.
9、君子的力量永远是行动的力量，而不是语言的力量。
the power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of language.
10、生活中真正的快乐是心灵的快乐，它有时不见得与外在的物质生活有紧密的联系。真正快乐的力量，来自心灵的富足，来自于一种教养，来自于对理想的憧憬，也来自于与良朋益友的切磋与交流。
the real happiness in life is the happiness of the soul. Sometimes it is not necessarily related to the external material life. The power of true happiness comes from the richness of the soul. It comes from a kind of upbringing, from the vision of ideals, and from the exchanges and exchanges with good friends and good friends.
11、君子之骄，骄傲的是内心的风骨。
the arrogance of the gentleman, the pride of the heart is the bone of the heart.
12、我们每一个人的一生中都难免有缺憾和不如意，也许我们无力改变这个事实，而我们可以改变的是看待这些事情的态度。用平和的态度来对待生活中的缺憾和苦难。
every one of us can't avoid regrets and disappointments in our lives. Maybe we can't change the fact, and we can change the attitude of looking at these things. To treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful attitude.
13、我们应结交那些可以完善自己品德，提高自身修养，丰富你的内涵的人。结交那些快乐的，能够享受生命，安贫乐道的朋友。
we should make friends with those who can improve their moral character, improve their self-cultivation and enrich your connotation. Make friends with those who are happy, who can enjoy life and live in poverty.
14、在今天看来，一个的发展往往不在于终极理想有多高远，而在于眼前有一个什么样的起点。我们往往不缺乏宏图伟志，而缺少通向那个志愿的一步步积累起来的切实的道路。
in today's view, a development often does not depend on how lofty the ultimate ideal is, but what kind of starting point it has at the moment. We often do not lack ambitious ambition, but lack a solid road to that aspiration.
15、承认现实生活中的不足之处，并通过自己的努力去弥补这种不足。
acknowledge the shortcomings in real life and make up for this deficiency through their own efforts.
16、越是竞争激烈，越是需要调整心态，并且调整与他人的关系。
the more competitive we are, the more we need to adjust our mindset and adjust our relationship with others.
17、物质意义上的幸福生活它仅仅是个指标，而真正从内心感到安定和对于政权的认可，则来自于信仰。
the happy life in the material sense is just an indicator, but the true feeling from the heart and the recognition of the regime come from faith.
18、成功的职业，不一定是你心中的理想。
a successful career is not necessarily the ideal of your heart.
19、人年轻时都是在用加法生活，但是到一定层次时，要学会用减法生活。你的心灵如果被所得堆满，最后就会累于得。
when young people are living in addition, but at a certain level, they should learn to use subtractive life. If your heart is filled with things, you will eventually get tired of it.
20、构建和谐社会，就是要把每一个人不同的声音和谐融入到在的集体的声音当中。真正的和谐就是在坚持不同的声音，不同观点的前提下，对于他人的一种宽容，一种融入。
building a harmonious society is to integrate everyone's different voices and harmony into the collective voice. True harmony is a kind of tolerance and integration to others under the premise of insisting on different voices and different viewpoints.
21、一个人的视力本有两种功能：一个是向外去，无限宽广地拓展世界；另一个是向内来，无限深刻地去发现内心。
a person's vision has two functions: one is to go out, expand the world in a wide and broad way; the other is inward, and unlimitless to discover the heart.
22、真正的和谐决不仅仅是一个小区邻里之间的和谐，也不仅仅是人与人之间的和谐，还包括大地上万物和谐而快乐地共同成长；人对自然万物，有一种敬畏，有一种顺应，有一种默契。
the real harmony is not only the harmony between the neighbourhood of a community, but not only the harmony between people, but also the harmonious and happy growth of all things on the earth; people have a kind of awe, a kind of compliance, and a kind of tacit agreement to all nature.
23、三十而立，这个“立”字首先是内在的立，然后才是在社会坐标上找到自己的位置。三十而立就是建立心灵的自信。三十而立不是通过一个外在的社会坐标来衡量你是否已成功，而是由内在的心灵标准衡定你的生命是否有了一种清明的内省，并且从容不迫，开始对自己所做的事情有了一种自信和坚定。
thirty years of standing, this "stand" is first of all internal standing, and then it finds its place in social coordinates. It is the confidence to build up the mind. It is not through an external social coordinate to measure whether you have succeeded, but by an inner spiritual standard that determines whether your life has a clear introspection and unhurried to begin to have a confidence and firmness of what you do.
24、一个人志向至关重要，决定他一生的发展方向。
a person's ambition is crucial to determine the direction of his life.
25、勇敢有时候是理性制约下的一种镇定和自信。
courage is sometimes a kind of calm and self-confidence under rational constraints.
26、我们的眼睛，看外界太多，看心灵太少。
we have too many eyes to see too little.
27、中国哲学崇尚的是一种庄严、理性和温柔敦厚之美。
Chinese philosophy advocates a solemn, rational and gentle beauty.
28、如果你有事没事总是跟在国君（领导）旁边，虽然表示亲近，但离自己招致羞辱就不远了；你有事没事总是跟在朋友旁边，虽然看起来亲密，但离你们俩疏远也就不远了。
if you have nothing to do with the ruler (leader), it is not far away from yourself, although it is close to yourself, but you have nothing to do with your friends, but it looks close, but it's not far away from you.
29、知天命就是内心有一种定力去应对外界？
knowing destiny is a kind of inner force to deal with the outside world.
30、内心有一种在理性制约下的自信与镇定，这是因为他有着宽广的胸怀和高远的志向。
there is a sense of self confidence and calmness in mind, which is because he has broad mind and lofty aspirations.
31、"神于天，圣于地"是中国人的人格理想：既有一片理想主义的天空，可以自由翱翔不妥协于现实世界上很多规则与障碍；又有脚踏实地的能力，能够在这个大地上进行他行为的拓展。
"God in heaven, holy land" is the personality ideal of the Chinese people: there is an idealistic sky, free to soar and uncompromising in many rules and obstacles in the real world, and the ability to carry out his behavior on the earth.
32、关爱别人就是仁慈；了解别人就是智慧。
caring for others is kindness; understanding others is wisdom.
33、在这个世界上最重要的人就是眼下你需要帮助的人，最重要的事就是马上去做，最重要的时间就是当下，一点不能拖延。
The most important person in the world is the person you need to help at the moment. The most important thing is to do it right away. The most important time is to be present and not to delay at all.
34、该放下时且放下，你宽容别人，其实是给自己留下来一片海阔天空。
when you put it down and put it down, you tolerate others, but actually leave yourself with a vast sky.
35、知天命就是内心有一种定力去应对外界。
knowing destiny is a kind of inner force to deal with the outside world.
36、迷惑多是因为眼界不够大，井底之蛙怎么能知道什么叫海阔天空呢？
confusion is mostly due to insufficient vision. How can a frog in the well know what is boundless and boundless?
37、多思、多想、多听、多看、谨言、慎行这么做的好处就是让自己的少一点后悔。我们在做一件事这前要先想后果，我们做事要先往远处想想，谨慎再谨慎，以求避免对他人的伤害，减少自己之后的悔恨。说话要用脑子，做事要考虑后果，这是为人处事很重要的一点。
think more, think more, listen more, watch more, speak more, and be prudent. The advantage of doing so is to make yourself less regret. We have to think about the consequences before we do a thing. We have to think in a distance and be prudent and careful in order to avoid the harm to others and to reduce regret after our own. Speaking with your head and doing things with consideration of consequences is a very important point for people to do things.
38、物质的东西越多人就越容易迷惑。
The more things are, the more people will be confused.
39、如果你因为错过太阳而哭泣，那么你也将错过星星。
if you shed tears when you miss the sun, you also miss the stars.
40、小人就是没有大眼界，抢占眼前小便宜的人。
the villain is no big vision, seize the small cheap people.
41、一个人做事的时候要知道什么是礼仪廉耻也就是对自己要有所约束，内心有坚定的不妥协的做人标准，同时要对社会有用，要为社会做事。
when a person does things, it is necessary to know what is the etiquette and shame, that is, to restrain himself. There is a firm and uncompromising standard of being a human being. At the same time, it is useful to the society and should do things for the society.
42、要学会把有限的知识融会贯通，融入自己的生命。要一边学，一边想，一边应用。
we must learn to integrate limited knowledge into our lives. Learn, think and use it.
43、要做到内心的强大，一个前提是要看轻身外之物的得与失。
in order to achieve inner strength, the premise is to see the gains and losses of things outside the body.
44、每一个成年人都有他生命中的光荣与隐痛，真正的好朋友不要轻易去触及他的隐痛。
every adult has the glory and secret pain in his life. A real good friend should not touch his secret pain easily.
45、要本着平等和理性的态度去尊重每一个人，彼此之间留一点分寸，有一点余地。花未全开，月未圆。这是人间最好的境界，花一旦全开，马上就要凋谢了，月一旦全圆，马上就要缺损了。而未全开未全圆，仍使你的心有所期待，有所憧憬。
we must respect everyone in an equal and rational manner and leave a little room for each other. The flowers are not full, and the moon is not round. This is the best realm of human life. Once the flower is fully opened, it will soon wither. Once the moon is round, it will soon be damaged. Not fully open, but still makes your heart look forward to something.
46、仁者不忧，智者不惑，勇者不惧，内心的强大可以化解生命中的很多遗憾。()
the benevolent man is not worried, the wise man is not confused, the brave is not afraid, and the strong heart can solve many of the regrets in life. ()
47、怀着乐观和积极的心态，把握好与人交往的分寸，让自己成为使他人快乐的人，让自己快乐的心成为阳光般的能源，去辐射他人，温暖他人。
with an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the position of communication with people, make themselves happy people, let their happy heart become sunshine energy, to radiate others, warm others.
48、勇敢有时候是理性制约下的一种镇定和自信。有德有仁的人才能真正做到心灵的勇敢。
courage is sometimes a kind of calm and self-confidence under rational constraints. Those who have virtue and humanity can truly be brave in heart.
49、“一个人的自信心来自哪里？它来自内心的淡定与坦然”；“患得患失的人，不会有开阔的心胸，不会有坦然的心境，也不会有真正的勇敢”；“一个人内心有所约制，就会在行为上减少过失”；“能够反省自己的错误并且勇于改正，就是儒者所倡导的真正的勇敢”。
"Where does a person's self-confidence come from? It comes from the indifference and the calm of the heart; the man in need is no open heart, no open mind, and no real courage. Positive courage.
50、其实就像我们面前有半瓶子酒，悲观主义者说：这么好的酒，怎么就剩半瓶了？乐观主义者说：这么好的酒还有半瓶呢！
in fact, just like half bottle wine before us, pessimists say: how can such a good wine be left half bottle? The optimist said, "such a good wine has half a bottle."
51、只有建立自己内心的价值系统才能把压力变成生命的张力？
only by setting up the inner value system can pressure become the tension of life.
52、从某种意义上说，一个人心中有什么，他看到的就是什么。
in a sense, what is in a man's mind and what he sees.
53、选择一个朋友，就是选择一种生活方式。自己修身养性是交到好朋友的前提，等于给自己打开了最友善的世界。能够让自己的人生具有光彩。
to choose a friend is to choose a way of life. Self cultivation is the premise of making good friends and opening up the friendliest world to oneself. You can make your life brilliant.
54、《论语》传递的是一种态度，是一种朴素、温暖的生活态度。
the Analects of Confucius is an attitude that is a simple and warm attitude towards life.
55、一个人内心没有了“忧”、“惑”“惧”，自然就减少对外界的报怨和指责，也就增强了把握幸福的能力，而增强把握幸福的能力，正是学习的终极目的。
there is no "worry", "confusion" and "fear" in one's heart. Naturally, it reduces the complaints and accusations of the outside world. It also strengthens the ability to grasp happiness, and the ability to grasp happiness is the ultimate aim of learning.
56、以直报怨，以德报德，提倡的是一种人生的效率和人格的尊言。
it is a kind of life efficiency and the respect of personality to advocate the return of good for the good and the good for the good.
57、只有真正的贤者，才能不被物质物质生活所累，才能始终保持心境的那份恬淡和安宁。
only the real sage can not be tired by material life, so that the peace and tranquility of the state of mind can always be maintained.
58、如果你的心灵很敞亮，很仁厚，你有一种坦率和勇敢，那么你有可能收获到许多意想不到的东西。
if your mind is bright and kindly, you have a frank and brave spirit, so you may get a lot of unexpected things.
