儿子，写这备忘录给你，基于三个原则：
Son, writing this memo to you is based on three principles:
（一）人生福祸无常，谁也不知可以活多久，有些事情还是早一点说好。
(1) life is full of misfortunes. No one knows how long they can live.
（二）我是你的父亲，我不跟你说，没有人会跟你说。
(two) I am your father. I will not tell you that no one will tell you.
（三）这备忘录里记载的，都是我经过惨痛失败得回来的体验，可以为你的成长省回不少冤枉路。
(three) the memorandum records are all experiences that I have come back after a painful failure, which can save you many wrong ways for your growth.
以下，便是你在人生中要好好记住的事：
Here are the things you need to remember in your life:
1、对你不好的人，你不要太介怀，在你一生中，没有人有义务要对你好，除了我和你妈妈。至于那些对你好的人，你除了要珍惜、感恩外，也请多防备一点，因为，每个人做每件事，总有一个原因，他对你好，未必真的是因为喜欢你，请你必须搞清楚，而不必太快将对方看作真朋友。
you should not be too fond of your bad people. In your life, no one is obliged to treat you, except me and your mother. As for those who are good for you, you have to cherish and be thankful, as well, because everyone does everything, and there is always a reason why he does not really like you because he likes you, and you have to make it clear, and don't have to think of the other person too quickly.
2、没有人是不可代替，没有东西是必须拥有。（http://www.lz13.cn）看透了这一点，将来你身边的人不再要你，或许失去了世间上最爱的一切时，也应该明白，这并不是甚么大不了的事。
no one can not be replaced, nothing must be possessed. (http://www.lz13.cn) to see through this, the people around you will no longer want you, and perhaps when you lose everything that is most loved in the world, it should be understood that it is not a big deal.
3、生命是短暂的，今日你还在浪费着生命，明日会发觉生命已远离你了。因此，愈早珍惜生命，你享受生命的日子也愈多，与其盼望长寿，倒不如早点享受。
life is short. Today you are wasting your life. Tomorrow you will find that life is far away from you. Therefore, the earlier you cherish life, the more you enjoy your life.
4、世界上并没有最爱这回事，爱情只是一种霎时的感觉，而这感觉绝对会随时日、心境而改变。如果你的所谓最爱离开你，请耐心地等候一下，让时日慢慢冲洗，让心灵慢慢沉淀，你的苦就会慢慢淡化。不要过分憧憬爱情的美，不要过分夸大失恋的悲。
there is no such thing as love in the world. Love is just an instant feeling, and this feeling will change at any time. If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let the time slowly wash, let the mind slowly precipitate, your pain will slowly fade. Don't overlook the beauty of love, do not exaggerate the grief of lovelorn.
5、虽然，很多有成就的人士都有受过很多教育，但并不等如不用功读书，就一定可以成功。你学到的知识，就是你拥有的武器。人，可以白手兴家，但不可以手无寸铁，紧记！
although many successful people have received a lot of education, they can not succeed without studying hard. What you have learned is the weapon you have. People can start home by hand, but can not be unarmed. Remember!
6、我不会要求你供养我下半辈子，同样地我也不会供养你的下半辈子，当你长大到可以独立的时候，我的责任已经完结。以后，你要坐巴士还是Benz，吃鱼翅还是粉丝，都要自己负责。
I will not ask you to support me for the rest of my life, and I will not provide for you for the rest of my life. When you grow up to be independent, my responsibility is over. Later, if you want to take a bus or Benz, eat shark fin or fans, you have to be responsible for yourself.
7、你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求别人守信，你可以要求自己对人好，但不能期待人家对你好。你怎样对人，并不代表人家就会怎样对你，如果看不透这一点，你只会徒添不必要的烦恼。
you can ask yourself to keep your word, but you can't ask others to keep your word. You can ask yourself to be nice to people, but you can't expect others to be nice to you. What you do to people does not mean what they will do to you. If you do not see this point, you will only add unnecessary trouble.
8、我买了十多二十年六合彩，还是一穷二白，连三奖也没有中，这证明人要发达，还是要努力工作才可以，世界上并没有免费午餐。
I bought Liuhe color for more than 10 or 20 years, still poor and white, even three awards are not in, which proves that people should be developed, or work hard, and there is no free lunch in the world.
9、亲人只有一次的缘份，无论这辈子我和你会相处多久，也请好好珍惜共聚的时光，下辈子，无论爱与不爱，都不会再见 。
relatives only once the fate, no matter how long I and you will live in this life, and please cherish the time together, the next life, whether love or not love, will not be goodbye.
