1、太过于欣赏自己的人，不会去欣赏别人的优点。
those who admire themselves too much will not appreciate the advantages of others.
2、每一个人都拥有生命，但并非每个人都懂得生命，乃至于珍惜生命。不了解生命的人，生命对他来说，是一种惩罚。
everyone has life, but not everyone knows life, and even cherish life. Life without him is a punishment for him.
3、时间总会过去的，让时间流走你的烦恼吧！
time will pass by. Let time flow away from your troubles.
4、来是偶然的，走是必然的。所以你必须随缘不变，不变随缘。
come by chance, it is inevitable to walk. So you have to be the same.
5、福报不够的人，就会常常听到是非；福报够的人，从来就没听到过是非。
people who are not good enough will often hear the right and wrong; those who are good enough will never hear the right or wrong.
6、欲知世上刀兵劫，但听屠门夜半声，不要光埋怨自己多病，灾祸横生，多看看横死在你手上的众生又有多少？
if you want to know the world's sword and robbery, but listen to the night of the slaughter gate, don't just complain that you are sick, and you can see how many people are living in your hands.
7、承认自己的伟大，就是认同自己的愚疑。
to admit your greatness is to accept your own doubts.
8、人不是坏的，只是习气罢了，每个人都有习气，只是深浅不同罢了。只要他有向善的心，能原谅的就原谅他，不要把他看做是坏人。
people are not bad, just habit, everyone has habits, but only shallow. As long as he has a good heart, he can forgive him, and do not regard him as a bad person.
9、其实爱美的人，只是与自己谈恋爱罢了。
in fact, people who love beauty are just in love with themselves.
10、别人可以违背因果，别人可以害我们，打我们，毁谤我们。可是我们不能因此而憎恨别人，为什么？我们一定要保持一份完整的本性和一颗清净的心。
others can violate the cause and effect, others can harm us, beat us, slander us. But we can't hate others for that. Why? We must maintain a complete nature and a clean heart.
11、你有你的生命观，我有我的生命观，我不干涉你。只要我能，我就感化你。如果不能，那我就认命。
you have your outlook on life, I have my view of life, I do not interfere with you. I will change you as long as I can. If I can't, I'll call it up.
12、我的财富并不是因为我拥有很多，而是我要求的很少。
my wealth is not because I have many, but I ask for very little.
13、活在别人的掌声中，是禁不起考验的人。
living in the applause of others is a man who can not stand the test.
14、永远不要浪费你的一分一秒时间去想任何你不喜欢的人。
never waste your minute or second to think of anyone you don't like.
15、恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中，不管他有多坏，有多恶。你愈骂他，你的心就被污染了，你要想，他就是你的善知识。
evil never comes from our mouth, no matter how bad or evil it is. The more you scold him, your heart is polluted, and if you want to, he is your good knowledge.
16、诚实的面对你内心的矛盾和污点，不要欺骗你自己。
honestly face your inner contradictions and stains, do not deceive yourself.
17、多一分心力去注意别人，就少一分心力反省自己，你懂吗？
more distraction to pay attention to others, less distraction to reflect on their own, do you understand?
18、因果不曾亏欠过我们什么，所以请不要抱怨。
cause and effect do not owe us anything, so please do not complain.
19、当你对自己诚实的时候，世界上没有人能够欺骗得了你。
when you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.
20、宁可自己去原谅别人，莫让别人来原谅你。
it is better to forgive others without allowing others to forgive you.
21、我们大部份的生命都浪费在文字语言的捉摸上。
most of our lives are wasted on the language of words.
22、如果一个人没有苦难的感受，就不容易对他人给予同情。你要学救苦救难的精神，就得先受苦受难。
if a person does not have the feeling of suffering, it is not easy to sympathize with others. You have to suffer first if you want to learn the spirit of saving lives.
23、做事就是在学做人而已。
to do things is to learn to be a man.
24、不要因为小小的争执，远离了你至亲的好友，也不要因为小小的怨恨，忘记了别人的大恩。
do not be a little dispute, away from your close friends, nor because of a little resentment, forget others' grace.
25、拥有一颗无私的爱心，便拥有了一切。
having a selfless love will have everything.
26、你接受比抱怨还要好，对于不可改变的事实，你除了接受以外，没有更好的办法了。
you accept better than complain. For the fact that you can not change, you have no better way than to accept it.
27、当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有这件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念，不肯放下，那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。
when you hold a thing in your hand, you can only have it. If you let go, you will have the chance to choose something else. If the heart of a man dies and holds his own ideas and refuses to let go, his intelligence can only reach a certain degree.
28、忌妒别人，不会给自己增加任何的好处；忌妒别人，也不可能减少别人的成就。
jealousy will not add any benefits to oneself; jealousy can not reduce others' achievements.
29、勇于接受别人的批评，正好可以调整自己的缺点。
the courage to accept criticism from others, just can adjust their shortcomings.
30、白白的过一天，无所事事，就像犯了窃盗罪一样。
one day, doing nothing is like stealing a crime.
31、是非天天有，不听自然无；是非天天有，不听还是有；是非天天有，看你怎么办？
right and wrong every day, do not listen to nature without; right and wrong every day, do not listen or have; right and wrong every day, see what you do?
32、恋爱不是慈善事业，不能随便施舍的。感情是没有公式，没有原则，没有道理可循的。可是人们至死都还在执著与追求。
love is not a charity, can not be arbitrarily given. There is no formula, no principles, no reason to follow. But people are still persevering and pursuing their death.
33、一个人如果不能从内心去原谅别人，那他就永远不会心安理得。
if a person can not forgive others from his heart, he will never feel at ease.
34、这个世间只有圆滑，没有圆满的。
The world is only smooth and unsuccessful.
35、原谅别人，就是给自己心中留下空间，以便回旋。
to forgive others is to leave room for your mind to convolution.
36、你不要常常觉得自己很委曲，你应该要想，他对我这样已经很好了，这就是修行的功夫。
do not often feel that you are very reluctant, you should think that he has been very good to me, this is the practice of practicing.
37、当你劝告别人时，若不顾及别人的自尊心，那么再好的言语都没有用的。
when you advise others, if you do not take into account the self-esteem of others, then no good words can be used.
38、情执是苦恼的原因，放下情执，你才能得到自在。
emotional attachment is the cause of distress.
39、别人讲我们不好，不用生气、难过；说我们好也不用高兴，这不好中有好，好中有坏，就看你会不会用？
others say that we are not good, do not angry, sad, said we are good, do not have to be happy, this is not good, there are good, good or bad, depends on whether you will use?
40、我们确实有如是的优点，但也要隐藏几分，这个叫做涵养。
we do have the advantages, but we also need to hide some points. This is called conservation.
41、认识自己，降伏自己，改变自己，才能改变别人。
know yourself, surrender yourself and change yourself before you can change others.
42、当你的错误显露时，可不要发脾气，别以为任性或吵闹，可以隐藏或克服你的缺点。
when your mistake is revealed, don't lose your temper. Don't think that you can hide or overcome your shortcomings by wayward or noisy.
43、多讲点笑话，以幽默的态度处事，这样子日子会好过一点。
tell us more jokes and do things in a humorous manner.
44、与其说是别人让你痛苦，不如说自己的修养不够。
it is better to say that one is not enough to cultivate oneself than others.
45、如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天，那就是一种福气了。多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳，多少人在今天已经成了残废，多少人在今天已经失去了自由，多少人在今天已经家破人亡。
if you can spend the whole day in peace, it is a blessing. How many people have not seen the sun of tomorrow, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their lives today.
46、如果你准备结婚的话，告诉你一句非常重要的哲学名言，你一定要忍耐包容对方的缺点，世界上没有绝对幸福圆满的婚姻，幸福只是来自于无限的容忍与互相尊重。
if you are ready to marry, tell you a very important philosophical saying that you must endure the shortcomings of each other. There is no absolutely happy and happy marriage in the world. Happiness is only from infinite tolerance and mutual respect.
47、活着一天，就是有福气，就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候，却发现有人没有脚。
to live one day is to have good fortune and cherish it. When I cried, I had no shoes to wear, but I found someone had no feet.
48、一般人在遇到对方的权势大，财富大，气力大，在无可奈何的情形之下而忍，这算什么忍耐呢？真正的忍是，就算他欺负了你，对不住你，但他什么都不及你，你有足够的力量对付他，而你却能容忍他，认为他的本性和我一样，只是一时糊涂，或在恶劣的环境中受到熏染罢了，你不必与他计较，能在这样的情况及心境之下容忍那才是真正的忍耐。
the average person in the face of the other party's power, wealth, great strength, in a helpless situation and endure, what kind of patience? The real patience is, even if he bully you, can't hold you, but he is less than you, you have enough strength to deal with him, and you can tolerate him, and think that his nature, like me, is just a moment of confusion, or in a bad environment, and you don't have to count on him, in such a situation and mood. To tolerate that is the real patience.
49、常以为别人在注意你，或希望别人注意你的人，会生活的比较烦恼。
people who often think others are paying attention to you or want others to pay attention to you will be more upset.
50、人家怕你，并不是一种福，人家欺你，并不是一种辱。
people fear you, is not a blessing, people bully you, is not a shame.
51、感谢上天我所拥有的，感谢上天我所没有的。
thank heaven for what I have, and thank God for what I do not have.
52、你硬要把单纯的事情看得很严重，那样子你会很痛苦。
you must see the simple things very seriously, so you will be very painful.
53、你要感谢告诉你缺点的人。
you want to thank the person who tells you the shortcomings.
54、不洗澡的人，硬擦香水是不会香的。名声与尊贵，是来自于真才实学的。有德自然香。
Those who do not bathe will not smell hard. Fame and honor are from real talent and learning. There is a natural fragrance.
55、你不要一直不满人家，你应该一直检讨自己才对。不满人家，是苦了你自己。
you should not be dissatisfied with others all the time. You should always review yourself. Discontent people, it is hard for yourself.
56、有时候我们要冷静问问自已，我们在追求什么？我们活着为了什么？
sometimes we should calm down and ask ourselves what we are pursuing. What do we live for?
57、你永远要感谢给你逆境的众生。
you will always be grateful to all those who give you adversity.
58、愚痴的人，一直想要别人了解他。有智慧的人，却努力的了解自己。
A fool has always wanted someone to know him. A man of wisdom has an effort to understand himself.
59、要了解一个人，只需要看他的出发点与目的地是否相同，就可以知道他是否真心的。
to understand a person, we need to see whether his starting point is the same as his destination, so that he can know whether he is sincere or not.
60、你目前所拥有的都将随着你的死亡而成为他人的，那为何不现在就乐施给真正需要的人呢？
what you have now will become others as you die. Why not give it to those who really need it now?
61、用伤害别人的手段来掩饰自己缺点的人，是可耻的。
it is shameful to cover up one's shortcomings with the means of hurting others.
62、世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃，要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用，但非我所属。
the world does not belong to you originally, therefore you need not abandon, must discard is all rigid. All things are used for me, but not by me.
63、虽然我们不能改变周遭的世界，我们就只好改变自己，用爱心和智慧来面对这一切.
though we can not change the world around us, we have to change ourselves and face it with love and wisdom.
64、别说别人可怜，自己更可怜，自己修行又如何？自己又懂得人生多少？
do not say other people are pitiful, oneself is more pitiful, oneself practice? How much do you know about life?
65、每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。
every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
66、如果你真的爱他，那么你必须容忍他部份的缺点。
if you really love him, you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.
67、你只管活你自己的，不必去介意别人的扭曲与是非。
you only need to live your own life without having to worry about others' distortion and right or wrong.
68、得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天，你深入了解后，你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。
we will always think that he is beautiful because of what you can't get, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. When you get to know one day, you will find that it is not as good as you think.
69、你永远要宽恕众生，不论他有多坏，甚至他伤害过你，你一定要放下，才能得到真正的快乐。
you must always forgive all living beings, no matter how bad he is, or even if he hurt you, you must let go before you get real happiness.
70、一个常常看别人缺点的人，自己本身就不够好，因为他没有时间检讨他自己。
a person who often watches other people's shortcomings is not good enough, because he has no time to review himself.
71、我能为你煮东西，但我不能为你吃东西。各人吃饭是各人饱，各人生死是个人了。
I can cook for you, but I can't eat for you. Every man eats, and every one is full, each man is born and died.
72、看轻别人很容易，要摆平自己却很困难。
it is easy to belittle others, but it is very difficult to settle themselves.
73、与其你去排斥它已成的事实，你不如去接受它。
it is better to accept it than to exclude the fact that it has become a reality.
74、良心是每一个人最公正的审判官，你骗得了别人，却永远骗不了你自己的良心。
conscience is the most impartial judge for everyone. You can deceive others but never cheat your conscience.
75、你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦恼。
when you put down, when there will be no trouble.
76、心中装满着自己的看法与想法的人，永远听不见别人的心声。
people who are filled with their own opinions and ideas can never hear others' voices.
77、不要在你的智慧中夹杂着傲慢。不要使你的谦虚心缺乏智慧。
do not mingle with arrogance in your wisdom. Do not make your modesty lack wisdom.
78、当你知道迷惑时并不可怜，当你不知道迷惑时，才最可怜。
when you know that confusion is not pitiful, when you do not know the confusion, it is the most pitiful.
79、不是某人使我烦恼，而是我拿某人的言行来烦恼自己。
not someone annoyed me, but I took someone's words and deeds to bother myself.
80、如果你能像看别人缺点一样，如此准确般的发现自己的缺点，那么你的生命将会不平凡。
if you can look at your shortcomings as accurately as you can, you will have an extraordinary life.
81、大多数的人一辈子只做了三件事；自欺、欺人、被人欺。
most people only do three things in their lifetime, deceive themselves, deceive people and be bullied.
82、不宽恕众生，不原谅众生，是苦了你自己。
do not forgive all sentient beings, do not forgive all living beings, is bitter yourself.
83、人生的真理，只是藏在平淡无味之中。
the truth of life is hidden in insipid taste.
84、你不必和因果争吵，因果从来就不会误人。你也不必和命运争吵，命运它是最公平的审判官。
you do not have to quarrel with cause and effect, cause and effect will never be wrong. You don't have to argue with fate. Fate is the most fair judge.
85、随缘不是得过且过、因循苟且，而是尽人事听天命。
it is not to go along with others, to follow the rules, but to listen to destiny.
86、不要刻意去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断，通常都会有错误的。
do not deliberately guess other people's thoughts. If you do not have the correct judgement of wisdom and experience, you will usually be wrong.
87、不要刻意去曲解别人的善意，你应当往好的地方想。
do not deliberately distort the goodwill of others, you should think of the good place.
88、请你用慈悲心和温和的态度，把你的不满与委屈说出来，别人就容易接受。
please use your compassion and gentleness to express your dissatisfaction and grievance, and others will accept it easily.
89、欲为诸佛龙象，先做众生马牛。
to be the Zhuo dragon elephant, first do all the living horse cattle.
90、你希望掌握永恒，那你必须控制现在。
you want to grasp the eternal, then you must control the present.
91、沉默是毁谤最好的答复。
silence is the best answer for slander.
92、说一句谎话，要编造十句谎话来弥补，何苦呢？
tell a lie, make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?
93、当你快乐时，你要想，这快乐不是永恒的。当你痛苦时你要想这痛苦也不是永恒的。
when you are happy, you have to think that happiness is not eternal. When you are suffering, you have to think that this pain is not eternal.
94、同样的瓶子，你为什么要装毒药呢？同样的心理，()你为什么要充满着烦恼呢？
the same bottle, why do you need to install poison? The same psychology, (why) why are you full of trouble?
95、多少人要离开这个世间时，都会说出同一句话：这世界真是无奈与凄凉啊！
when many people leave this world, they will say the same sentence: "the world is really helpless and desolate!"
96、逆境是成长必经的过程，能勇于接受逆境的人，生命就会日渐的茁壮。
adversity is a process of growth. People who are brave enough to accept adversity will grow stronger and stronger.
97、自以为拥有财富的人，其实是被财富所拥有。
people who think they have wealth are actually owned by wealth.
98、当你明天开始生活的时候，有人跟你争执，你就让他赢，这个赢跟输，都只是文字的观念罢了。当你让对方赢，你并没有损失什么。所谓的赢，他有赢到什么？得到什么？所谓的输，你又输到什么？失去什么？
when you start living tomorrow, when someone is arguing with you, you let him win. This win or lose is just a concept of writing. When you make the other win, you don't lose anything. What does he win to win? What do you get? What do you lose by losing? What is the loss?
99、毁灭人只要一句话，培植一个人却要千句话，请你多口下留情。
destroy a person, as long as a sentence, cultivate a person but need a thousand words, please give more attention.
100、狂妄的人有救，自卑的人没有救。
the arrogant people can be saved, and those who feel inferior will not be saved.
101、讨厌一个人，但却又能发觉他的优点好处，像这样子有修养的人，天下真是太少了。
hate a person, but he can find his advantages and benefits, like this kind of cultured people, the world is too little.
102、夸奖我们，赞叹我们的，这都不是名师。会讲我们，指示我们的，这才是良师，有了他们我们才会进步。
praise us, praise our, this is not a famous teacher. We will be instructed and instructed, and we will progress if we have them.
103、不要因为众生的愚疑，而带来了自己的烦恼；不要因为众生的无知，而痛苦了你自己。
do not let the doubts of all sentient beings bring their own troubles; do not suffer yourselves because of the ignorance of all sentient beings.
104、对人恭敬，就是在庄严你自己。
respectful to people, is to be in the dignity of yourself.
105、如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，你放不下。
if you do not give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of your own heart, you can't put it down.
106、仇恨永远不能化解仇恨，只有宽容才能化解仇恨，这是永恒的至理。
hatred can never dissolve hatred. Only tolerance can resolve hatred. This is the eternal truth.
107、这个世界本来就是痛苦的，没有例外的。
the world is painful, without exception.
108、只要面对现实，你才能超越现实。
as long as you face reality, you can surpass reality.
109、不懂得自爱的人，是没有能力去爱别人的。
those who do not know how to love themselves have no ability to love others.
110、人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。
the reason why people suffer is to pursue the wrong things.
111、能为别人设想的人，永远不寂寞。
those who can imagine for others are never lonely.
112、不要浪费你的生命，在你一定会后悔的地方上。
do not waste your life, where you will regret it.
113、内心充满忌妒，心中不坦白，言语不正的人，不能算是一位五官端正的人。
the heart is full of jealousy, the heart is not honest, words are not right, can not be regarded as a person with regular features.
114、当你用烦恼心来面对事物时，你会觉得一切都是业障，世界也会变得丑陋可恨。
when you face things with annoyance, you will feel that everything is a karma, and the world will become ugly and hateful.
115、世上的事，不如己意者，那是当然的。
things in the world are not as good as those you wish.
116、是非和得失，要到最后的结果，才能评定。
the right and wrong gains and losses must be evaluated until the final result.
117、好好的管教你自己，不要管别人。
discipline yourself well, not others.
118、能说不能做，不是真智慧。
can not be said can not do, not true wisdom.
119、不要太肯定自己的看法，这样子比较少后悔。
don't be too sure about your own views.
120、说话不要有攻击性，不要有杀伤力，不夸已能，不扬人恶，自然能化敌为友。
do not speak aggressive, do not have lethality, do not exaggerate already, can not be evil, can naturally turn enemies into friends.
121、你要包容那些意见跟你不同的人，这样子日子比较好过。你要是一直想改变他，那样子你会很痛苦。要学学怎样忍受他才是，你要学学怎样包容他才是。
you have to accommodate those who disagree with you. If you always want to change him, you will be miserable. You have to learn how to put up with him. You have to learn how to tolerate him.
122、根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁？如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？
there is no need to go back to see who is cursing you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him?
123、世界上没有一个永远不被毁谤的人，也没有一个永远被赞叹的人。当你话多的时候，别人要批评你，当你话少的时候，别人要批评你，当你沈默的时候，别人还是要批评你。在这个世界上，没有一个人不被批评的。
there is no one in the world who will never be slandered nor one who will always be praised. When you talk too much, others will criticize you. When you speak less, others will criticize you. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, no one is not criticized.
124、憎恨别人对自己是一种很大的损失。
hatred of others is a great loss to oneself.
125、多用心去倾听别人怎么说，不要急着表达你自己的看法。
listen attentively to what others say, and don't rush to express your views.
126、创造机会的人是勇者。等待机会的人是愚者。
The man who creates the opportunity is a brave man. The man who waits for the opportunity is a fool.
127、心是最大的骗子，别人能骗你一时，而它却会骗你一辈子。
the heart is the biggest liar, others can deceive you for a while, but it will cheat you for a lifetime.
128、与任何人接触时，要常常问自己，我有什么对他有用？使他得益。如果我不能以个人的道德、学问和修持的力量，来使人受益，就等于欠了一份债。
when you are in contact with anyone, ask yourself often, what do I have for him? Make him benefit. If I can not benefit from personal morality, knowledge and practice, I owe a debt.
129、吃了就一定要拉，人一定要学会随缘放下，否则就会便秘。
eat must pull, people must learn to let go, otherwise constipation.
130、如果我们放眼从累生历劫去看，那么一切的众生，谁不曾做过我的父母、兄弟姊妹、亲戚眷属？谁不曾做过我的仇敌冤家？如果说有恩，个个与我有恩；如果说有冤，个个与我有冤。这样子我们还有什么恩怨亲疏之别呢？再就智慧愚笨来说，人人有聪明的时候，也有愚痴的时候，聪明的人可能变愚痴，愚痴的人也可能变聪明。最坏的人，也曾做过许多好事，而且不会永远坏；好人也曾做过许多坏事，将来也不一定会好。如此我们反复思索，所谓的冤亲、贤愚，这许多差别的概念，自然就会渐渐淡了。这绝对不是混沌，也不是不知好坏，而是要将我们无始以来的偏私差别之见，以一视同仁的平等观念罢了！
if we look at the disaster from the tired students, who has never been my parents, brothers and sisters and relatives? Who has never been my enemy? If there is grace, everyone has something to do with me; if there is any injustice, everyone will have an injustice against me. What other grievances do we have? When it comes to wisdom and stupidity, when people are smart and stupid, smart people may become stupid and stupid people can be smart. The worst man has done many good deeds, and will not be bad forever. The good guys have done many bad things and will not be good in the future. So we ponder over and over again, the so-called "bad relatives", "wise and foolish", these many different concepts, will gradually fade. This is definitely not chaos, nor is it not good or bad, but to see the differences between us from the beginning and the same concept of equality.
131、要克服对死亡的恐惧，你必须要接受世上所有的人都会死去的观念。
to overcome the fear of death, you must accept the idea that all people in the world will die.
132、不要常常觉得自己很不幸，世界上比我们痛苦的人还要多。
do not often feel that they are very unfortunate. There are more people in the world than we are suffering.
133、永远扭曲别人善意的人，无药可救。
always distorting the good intentions of others, no cure.
