1、“磨难”好比孩子成长过程中的钙，是不可或缺的精神营养。——李浩
"suffering" is like the calcium in children's growth process, which is an indispensable mental nutrition. - Li Hao
2、父母在教育孩子的同时，也在进行自我教育。
parents are also educating themselves while educating their children.
3、父母是天然的教师，他们对儿童，特别是幼儿的影响最大。
parents are natural teachers. They have the greatest influence on children, especially children.
4、带孩子去旅游，去爬山，去逛公园，去看电影，这都是夸奖孩子最适当的方式。——张石平
take children to travel, go mountain climbing, go to the park, go to the movies, this is the most appropriate way to praise children. - Zhang Shiping
5、对于孩子来说，生活就像一所学校，一草一木都可以成为研究、探索的对象。
for children, life is like a school. Every single plant can become the object of research and exploration.
6、对于稍懂事的孩子，可以给他一个眼神或某种暗示，保持暂时的沉默，常会达到“此时无声胜有声”的效果。——吕斌
for a slightly sensible child, you can give him a look or some hint, to maintain a temporary silence, often achieve "at this time no voice wins the sound" effect. - Lv Bin
7、父母不可能陪伴孩子一辈子，所以必须从小培养孩子的社会意识和独立的意识。
parents can not accompany their children forever, so they must cultivate their children's social consciousness and independent consciousness from childhood.
8、丰富的想象力比书本知识更重要。
the rich imagination is more important than the book knowledge.
9、多一分关心，少一分溺爱。多一分勉励，少一分纵容。多一点表扬，少一点责骂。
more care, less doting. More encouragement and less indulgence. A little more praise, less scolding.
10、多蹲下来听孩子说话，你看到的将是—个纯真无暇的世界！——阮庚梅
squat down to listen to the children, you will see a pure world. - Ruan Gengmei
11、对症下药方可治愈疾病。
the prescription of the disease can cure the disease.
12、对于稍年长的孩子，父母可以通过“悄悄话”的形式嘱咐他，绝大多数的孩子都乐于接受这种“温和式”的教育方法。——吕斌
For older children, parents can tell him through the form of "whisper", and most of the children are willing to accept this kind of "mild" education method. - Lv Bin
13、父母对子女期望值过高所导致的结果，往往是适得其反。——东方
the result that parents expect too much of their children is often counterproductive. The East
14、把学生的思考空间留给学生自己，当然教师对此也应加以强有力的引导。——苗体君
leave students' thinking space to students themselves. Of course, teachers should also give strong guidance to them. - Miao Tijun
15、表扬孩子要公开进行，批评孩子要单独进行。
praise the children to be open and criticize the children to do it alone.
16、不要用玫瑰的标准去苛求全世界的花朵，要让每一朵花都绽放出自己独特的色彩和芬芳！
do not use the rose standard to challenge the flowers of the world, let every flower bloom its own unique color and fragrance.
17、从长远利益考虑，让孩子从小适度地知道一点忧愁，品尝一点磨难，并非坏事，这对培养孩子的承受力和意志，对孩子的健康成长或许更有好处。——东方
from the long-term interests, it is not a bad thing to let the child know a little worry in an appropriate way from an early age, and it is not a bad thing to taste a little. It may be more beneficial to the development of the children's endurance and will to the healthy growth of the children. The East
18、父母教育孩子的过程，也是自身不断感悟和学习的过程。
the process of parents educating their children is also a process of self perception and learning.
19、让孩子吃点苦，他会倍感生活的甘甜。——薛灿芝
let the child eat bitterness, he will feel the sweetness of life. - Xue Canzhi
20、勤勤恳恳学习，快快乐乐生活；认认真真做事，实实在在做人。
diligent study, happy life; true work, real life.
21、浅水留不住大鱼，笼里养不出雄鹰，把属于孩子的都给他吧，别总在后面唠唠叨叨，他自己的路，终归得自己走。
the shallow water can not hold the big fish, the cage can not raise the eagle, to belong to the children to him, do not always nagging in the back, his own way, the end of his own walk.
22、培养孩子坚强乐观的心理品格，能为他们未来生活提供有力的支点。——李浩
cultivate children's strong and optimistic psychological character, and provide a fulcrum for their future life. - Li Hao
23、教育必须从心理上探索儿童的兴趣和习惯开始。
education must start with psychological exploration of children's interests and habits.
24、教人要从小教起。幼儿比如幼苗，培养得宜，方能发芽滋长，否则幼年受了损伤，即不夭折，也难成材。——陶行知：《陶行知全集》
teach people to teach from childhood. Young children, such as seedlings, are well trained to germinate and grow, otherwise they will suffer from injury if they are young. Tao Xingzhi: the complete works of Tao Xingzhi
25、好沟通都是听出来的。第一个步骤是倾听，就是让孩子把话说出来，并且听懂孩子话里的真实意思。第二个步骤是理解，就是站在孩子的角度想是不是有道理，结果往往是有道理的。第三个步骤是建议，即使有道理，孩子并不一定就能采取正确的行动，因此父母这时应该给以建议。
good communication is all heard. The first step is to listen, that is, to let the child speak and understand the real meaning of the child's words. The second step is to understand whether it is reasonable to stand in the child's perspective, and the result is often justified. The third step is to suggest that even if there is reason, children may not be able to take the right action, so parents should give advice at this time.
26、孩子的心灵是否舒展是教育成败的关健，心灵舒展的孩子必然会欢乐而轻松地飞，心灵压抑则只能痛苦而缓慢地爬！
the heart of the child is the success of the success of the success of the success of the success of Guan Jian, the heart to ease the children will be happy and easy to fly, the soul can only be painful and slow crawling!
27、孩子的理性是不断成长的，不要喂养他们，而要引导他们。
children's rationality is constantly growing. Do not feed them, but guide them.
28、过高的期望带来孩子的无望；过度的保护带来孩子的无能。
too high expectations bring children hopelessness; excessive protection leads to children's incompetence.
29、父母在批评孩子时，请给孩子留点面子。——吕斌
when parents criticize their children, please save some face for their children. - Lv Bin
30、母爱是人世间最神圣的感情，应为这种感情最没有利禄之心掺杂其间。
maternal love is the most sacred emotion in the world, and it should be mixed with the heart of this kind of affection.
31、教导儿童的主要技巧，是把儿童应做的事变成一种游戏的。
the main skill of teaching children is to turn children into games.
32、简单、凝练的童话往往蕴涵着丰富的知识和深刻的道理。
simple and concise fairy tales often contain rich knowledge and profound truth.
33、好父母都是学出来的。没有天生的成功父母，也没有不需要学习的父母，每一个人在做父母之前都要学习相关的知识，关于怎样做父母的意
good parents are learned. There are no natural successful parents, no parents who do not need to learn, and every person needs to learn the relevant knowledge before being a parent, about how to be a parent.
34、好成就都是化出来的。意志、品德、胸襟等这些最重要的因素不是通过父母的说教等“显教育”就能产生效果的，而是通过父母的行为即“潜教育”化进孩子的血肉里。让孩子养成大襟怀的最好方式，除了父母能做好的表率外，就是让孩子多读名著，多读伟人的传记，让孩子从小学会用伟人的眼光来看待社会和自己
good achievements are all turned out. The most important factors, such as will, moral character and mind, are not effective by "explicit education" such as the parents' preaching, but through the behavior of the parents, "latent education" into the children's flesh and blood. The best way for children to develop big bosom, in addition to their parents can do well, is to let children read more famous books, read more biographies of great men, and let children learn to look at society and themselves with the eyes of great men.
35、好成绩都是帮出来的。帮助孩子适应应试教育成了我们父母应尽的一份义务，而帮助孩子减负的最好办法就是我们父母增负，就是我们父母能够成为孩子学习上的导师。
good results are all help out. It is a duty of our parents to help the children adapt to the exam oriented education, and the best way to help children lose their children is our parents' burden, that is, our parents can be the tutors of their children's study.
36、父母是孩子认识世界、获取知识的第一所学校。
parents are the first schools for children to know the world and acquire knowledge.
37、父母是榜样，言行宜谨慎；兴趣是动力，良莠要区分；勤奋是捷径，劳逸要结合；德智体美育，发展要全面；锲而不舍之，必成栋梁材。
parents are examples, words and deeds should be cautious; interest is the power, the good and the bad must be distinguished; diligence is the shortcut, labor and leisure should be combined; moral and aesthetic education, development to be comprehensive; perseverance, must be a beam material.
38、家庭教育的任务，首先是父母教育、父母学习。
the task of family education begins with parental education and parental learning.
39、家庭教育不是一昧的说教，家长更多的时候应该扮演的是“抛砖”者、“引玉”人的角色。
family education is not an absolute preaching. Parents should play the role of "throwing bricks" and "attracting jade" more often.
40、家教名人名言种庄稼要不务农时，教育孩子要适时早教，才能收到事半功倍的效果。——雪苏
family education celebrities famously say that when crops are planted or farm time is taught, children should be taught early in time, so that they can get twice the result with half the effort. Snow Su
41、激发幼儿的求知和学习的欲望，远比教会有限的知识有意义得多。
stimulating children's desire for knowledge and learning is far more meaningful than the limited knowledge of the church.
42、基础课程要坚实，全面发展要扎实，循序渐进要踏实，培养兴趣要落实，学会做人要老实，谦虚谨慎要诚实，胸怀大志要忠实，终身获益结果实。
the basic curriculum should be solid, comprehensive development should be solid, step by step to be solid, cultivate interest to be implemented, learn to be honest, modest and prudent, honest, faithful and lifelong benefit.
43、好习惯都是养出来的。孩子身上的多数习惯——无论是好习惯还是坏习惯，都是我们做父母的有意无意培养出来的。
good habits are all raised. Most habits of children, whether good habits or bad habits, are consciously or unconsciously cultivated by our parents.
44、好孩子都是教出来的。优秀父母，他们的一个共同点就是在教育孩子上费尽心思。
good children are taught. One of their common points is that parents are struggling to educate their children.
45、孩子自己动手制作小玩具，虽然粗糙，但远比得来现成的精美玩具快乐。
children make small toys on their own, although rough, but far better than the exquisite toys available.
46、孩子在幼儿其间，蕴藏着无限的可能性，需要父母加以挖掘和引导。
children in the children, it contains infinite possibilities, parents need to dig and guide.
47、孩子的幽默是最自然、最坦率的人类语言，需要父母用心去发现和体会。
children's humor is the most natural and the most straightforward human language, requiring parents to find and experience with their hearts.
48、孩子的心灵犹如白纸一样纯洁，既容易受真善美的熏陶，也容易受假丑恶的污染。——张于义
the soul of a child is as pure as white paper. It is easy to be influenced by the true, the good and the beautiful, and easy to be contaminated by fake and ugly. - Zhang Yuyi
49、明朝思想家王守仁语：“大抵童子之性，乐嬉游，而惮拘俭，如草之始萌芽，舒畅之，则条达，摧挠之，则衰萎。”
Wang Shouren, a thinker of the Ming Dynasty, "the sex of the boy, the pleasure of fun, and the fear of being frugal, if the grass begins to sprout, and is smooth, then breaks, and then declines."
50、每个对孩子将来负责的父母应该牢牢记住这个很重要的育儿原则——替孩子们做他们能做的事，是对他积极性的最大打击。——蓝天
every parent who is responsible for the children's future should be firmly in mind this important parenting principle - what they can do for the children, the biggest blow to his enthusiasm. The blue sky
51、没有一个朋友能比得上健康，没有一个敌人能比得上疾病。
no friend can be healthier than an enemy.
52、没有体谅和信任，便没有友谊。
Without understanding and trust, there is no friendship.
53、漫长的封建社会就是培养只会”听话”的顺民，才扼杀了中华民族中最具活力的创新精神。——苗体君
the long feudal society is to cultivate obedient obedient people before killing the most innovative spirit of the Chinese nation. - Miao Tijun
54、满心关怀，让孩子拥有成功的本钱；满心祝福让孩子拥有自信的力量；满心支持，让孩子拥有独立的人格。
full of care, let the child have the cost of success; full of blessing to let the child have the power of self-confidence; full support, let the child have an independent personality.
55、良好的个性胜于卓越的才智。
good personality is better than brilliant intellect.
56、结合童话寓意，引导孩子去思考、探索，比单纯说理要深刻。
combining fairy tales, guiding children to think and explore is more profound than mere reasoning.
57、教子要：爱之以诚，动之以情，晓之以理，授之以渔，观之以行。
teach the child: love is honest, emotional and rational, and teach it to fish.
58、教育幼儿除了要有耐心之外，还要讲究方法和技巧。
education children in addition to patience, but also pay attention to methods and skills.
59、我们不能按照自己的观念和期望去塑造孩子，应该让他们走有利于身心健康成长和自我发展之路！
we can not shape children according to our own ideas and expectations. We should let them take the road conducive to physical and mental health growth and self-development.
60、天赋如同自然花木，要用来修剪。
talent is like natural flowers and trees, it should be used for pruning.
61、体罚打断父子情，身教拉近彼此心；文明话语要知礼，和-谐家庭我做起。
corporal punishment interrupts father and son love, body and mind draw close to each other's heart; civilized discourse requires courtesy, harmony and harmony.
62、适时引导孩子讲故事，这是保持他们思想活跃的绝妙方法。
timely guide children to tell stories, this is a wonderful way to keep their minds active.
63、使一个人发挥最大能力的方法，是赞赏和鼓励。
the best way to make a person perform his best is praise and encouragement.
64、让孩子享受在风吹雨淋中搏击的快乐，让孩子在生活的磨砺中不断地成长和成熟。——张石平
let the children enjoy the joy of fighting in the wind and rain, and let the children grow and mature in the grinding of life. - Zhang Shiping
65、教育上操之过急和缓慢滞后，都会摧残孩子正常的心理发育。
too fast and slow lagging in education will destroy children's normal psychological development.
66、教育的艺术不在于传授本领，而在于极力、唤醒和鼓舞。
the art of education lies not in teaching but also in arousing and inspiring.
67、识和知识准备得越早越好，越充分越好。
the earlier and better the knowledge and knowledge, the better the better.
68、如果你真的爱孩子，就该送他“出海经风浪”。
if you really love your child, you should send him to sea.
69、如果夫妻教子观点不一，会让孩子分不清正误，不利于他美好品德的培养。——赵秀朵
if the views of husband and wife differ, children will not be able to distinguish the right from wrong, which is not conducive to the cultivation of their good moral character. - Zhao Xiuduo
70、任何行业中，走向成功的第一步是对它产生兴趣，幼儿学习更是如此。
in any industry, the first step towards success is to have an interest in it.
71、我们的教育是要把学生从听话的规范教育中拯救出来，恢复学生的自由思考的天性。——苗体君
our education is to save the students from obedient standard education and restore the natural thinking of students. - Miao Tijun
72、我们对于儿童有两种极端的心理，都于儿童有害。一是忽视；二是期望太切。忽视则任其象茅草样自生自灭，期望太切不免揠苗助长，反而促其夭折。所以合理的教导是解除儿童痛苦增进儿童幸福之正确路线。——《陶行知全集》
we have two extreme psychological problems for children, which are harmful to children. One is to ignore; the two is that the expectation is too much. Neglecting it is like letting the grass grow its own way. It is too much to hope for, but to urge it to die. Therefore, reasonable teaching is the right way to relieve children's suffering and promote children's happiness. "The complete works of Tao Xingzhi"
73、在孩子的世界里，一切东西跟人一样，都是有思想、有感情的。
in the children's world, everything is just like people, thinking and feeling.
74、在达到理智的年龄之前，孩子不能接受观念，而只能接受形象。
before reaching a reasonable age, children can not accept ideas, but only accept images.
75、一切教育都是从我们对儿童天性的理解开始。
all education starts with our understanding of the nature of children.
76、一束赞许的目光，一个会心的微笑，一次赞许的点头，都可以传递真情的鼓舞，都能表达对孩子的夸奖。——张石平
a bunch of approving eyes, a knowing smile, and a nod of approval can convey the encouragement of true feelings and express the praise of children. - Zhang Shiping
77、以爱心呵护孩子的童心，以童心换取孩子的真心，以真心赢得教育的开心！
love the child's childlike innocence, exchange innocence for the sincerity of the children, and win the education with sincerity.
78、婴儿的情绪，是认识世界的反映。
the mood of the baby is a reflection of the world.
79、用阳光的心态培养具有阳光心灵的孩子。
cultivate a sunny heart with a sunny mind.
80、优秀是一种习惯。要想让你的孩子优秀，就要逐步培养他养成良好的习惯。
excellence is a habit. If you want your children to be excellent, you should gradually cultivate them into good habits.
81、有些家长为让孩子学习进步而赏钱，此举无异于贿赂，是极其错误的。——东方
some parents appreciate money for their children's learning progress, which is a mistake. The East
82、幼儿的学习是全方位，并不局限于读写算和各种技艺。
children's learning is all-around, not limited to reading, writing, counting and various skills.
83、育儿过程有艰辛，也有欢乐。
The process of childcare is hard and happy.
84、运动贵有恒，饮食贵有节。
the sport is expensive and the diet is expensive.
85、一个家，如果没有饭香，就像森林缺少了土地；一个家，如果没有书香，就像森林缺少了鸟儿；一个家，如果没有心香，就像森林缺少了阳光。
a home, if there is no fragrance, like a forest lack of land; a family, if there is no book, like a forest lack of birds; a family, if there is no heart, like the lack of sunlight in the forest.
86、要使孩子登上才智的高峰，争论是一条极为重要的途径。——水仙
to make children reach the summit of intelligence, arguing is a very important way. Narcissus
87、性格塑造始于婴儿时期。
character molding begins in infancy.
88、想象与显示不分使孩子很容易融入到故事情景中，并从中受到教育。
imagination and display make children easy to integrate into the story and receive education.
89、无能的人不能培养出有才华的人，名师出高徒，家长要不断提高充实自己，只有学而不厌才能诲人不倦。——赵秀玲
incompetent people can not cultivate talented people, famous teachers are high disciples, parents should constantly improve themselves, only learning hard to be tireless. - Zhao Xiuling
90、我们在夸奖孩子时，应该不拘一格，因时因事而宜，以充分展示出夸奖的真正魅力。——张石平
when we praise our children, we should stick to one pattern and act accordingly, so as to fully show the true charm of praise. - Zhang Shiping
91、在生活中学习，是幼儿最有效的学习方法。
learning in life is the most effective way for children to learn.
92、只要家长善于利用，生活中的每个细节都可以用来教育孩子。
as long as parents are good at using, every detail in life can be used to educate children.
93、只要教师和家长协调一致，才能形成教育的合力。
as long as teachers and parents are in harmony, the resultant force of education can be formed.
94、重视孩子的细微要求，给孩子一双会编织的翅膀；珍视孩子的点滴进步，给孩子一双会思考的眼睛。
pay attention to the child's fine request, give the child a pair of woven wings, cherish the child's progress, give the child a pair of thinking eyes.
95、做事为之三思行，不要临渴才挖井；长大要有成功路，从小先不做懒人；刻苦学习功必成，切不可让志气沉；对人礼貌讲文明，助人为乐小事情。
do things for the three thinking line, do not be thirsty to dig wells; grow up to have a successful road, not a lazy person from an early age; hard study work must be done, must not let aspirations sink; polite to the people, help small things.
96、父母要逐渐培养孩子独立思考、独立解决问题的习惯，并由此树立孩子的信心。
parents should gradually cultivate their children's habit of thinking independently and solving problems independently, thereby establishing their children's confidence.
97、父母是子女在生活中一切言行举止的最早启蒙老师。
parents are the earliest teachers of children in all walks of life.
